No Child Left Alone. Abby W. Schachter
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FIRST AMERICAN EDITION
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Names: Schachter, Abby W., 1969– author.
Title: No child left alone: getting the government out of parenting / by Abby W. Schachter.
Description: New York: Encounter Books, [2016] | Includes bibliographical references and index. | Description based on print version record and CIP data provided by publisher; resource not viewed.
Identifiers: LCCN 2015044908 (print) | LCCN 2015041108 (ebook) | ISBN 9781594038624 (Ebook)
Subjects: LCSH: Child welfare—United States. | Children—Government policy—United States. | Family policy—United States. | Parenting—United States. | Parents—United States.
Classification: LCC HV741 (print) | LCC HV741 .S347 2016 (ebook) | DDC 362.7/25610973—dc23
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To my parents,
Ruth and Leonard Wisse,
and to my husband,
Ben Schachter
Contents
Foreword
Lenore Skenazy
Introduction
1. Arresting Captain Mommy
Criminalizing parents for raising independent, self-assured children
2. Breast Is Best, or Else
Advocating for breastfeeding isn’t enough—it has to be the law
3. Daycare Nannies
Too few child-care centers that cost too much—the result of too many regulations
4. School Statists
Obsessed with health and fat shaming
5. The War on Fun
Banning play, toys, and games
6. Obesity Police
Kids taken into state custody because they’re fat and other child-welfare woes
Conclusion
Acknowledgments
Notes
Selected Bibliography
Index
CAPTAIN MOMMY \′kap-t
CAPTAIN DADDY \′kap-t
“I’D LIKE TO LET my kids walk to school, but . . .”
But what?
You’re the parent! They’re your kids! You want to give them the freedom you loved—to walk, explore, stay home, go out, or even, once in a while, to get lost or goof up. To do things on their own.
But . . .
As Captain Mommy knows all too well, it’s no longer straightforward.
For the first five years after I founded the Free-Range Kids movement, parents who wanted to let their kids walk to school would end that sentence with, “but I don’t want them to get kidnapped.” Fair enough . . . even though the chances of that happening are so outlandishly small, that if for some reason you actually WANTED your child to be kidnapped by a stranger, do you know how long you’d have to keep him outside, unsupervised, for that to be statistically likely to happen?
About 750,000 years. (And after the first 100,000, you really couldn’t even call him a “kid” anymore.) But that’s for another book.
Suffice it to say that a few years ago, the “I’d like my kids to walk” sentence started ending differently: “. . . but I don’t want to get arrested.”
Fear of predators had been supplanted by fear of the police.
The stories, after all, were in the news: “I let my nine-year-old play in the park and was thrown in jail for negligence.” “I let my kids eleven, nine, and five play in the playground across the street from me, and I was put on the state’s