or doing certain hobbies can also be a good way to channel unexpressed frustrations.
Take care not to overdo the release. If you find yourself becoming even more angry or sad, stop immediately. Instead, find a friend or a professional counsellor with whom you can talk through the problem. You may need to let go of your feelings gradually, over a long period of time.
14 Have a professional health check
Unless you have had one very recently, make an appointment for a full health check right now. Your doctor, a commercial health insurance company or some fitness trainers can do this.
15 Don’t skip your dental check-ups
Bad teeth cause irritation in our digestive systems as well as our mouths. Their infections can also depress our immune system and sap our energy, long before we are aware of any pain. And unkempt teeth do nothing for our self-esteem.
16 Give yourself a fitness lifestyle check once a month
Ask yourself the following questions:
Book tickets to see a funny play, film or comedy show at least once next month. If you can’t get out, how about a video or DVD? Comedy takes us out of ourselves and helps us put our little problems in better perspective. And (as if that isn’t enough) the laughter it triggers will help strengthen our immune system.
18 Keep up-to-date with health research
Read books and magazines about improving your health. It will help you to prevent many problems as well as getting you to the front of the queue for any new wonder cures.
19 Go green with your own energy
View your energy as a scarce resource to be valued and used economically. Conserve it whenever you can, so you have plenty left for your important projects. (For example, if you have to travel, consider going by train instead of tiring yourself out driving.) Assertively refuse to do things that you don’t need or wish to do.
20 Identify your body’s stress warning signs
Having a basically bad opinion of yourself makes you even more vulnerable to stress. Get to know and keep a short checklist list of your body’s warning signals of stress. Some of us notice our first sign of tension in our back, for others it is in the head or legs. The trick is to know where your area of weakness is, and closely monitor it before the symptom begins to cause serious problems. Write your warning signals out on a card and place them in a prominent position as a constant reminder. Physical symptoms of stress may include:
shoulder, back or neck ache
headaches
indigestion
bowel problems
blocked sinuses
frequent urination
skin rashes
stiffness in joints
frequent pins and needles
dizziness
excessive PMT
21 Know how your behaviour changes under stress
Each of us has developed a habit of behaving in a certain way when we are under stress. You may not be able to see the change in yourself, so you may need someone else to give you feedback. Here are some examples of common habits:
poor concentration
insomnia
nail-biting, scratching and picking
inability to listen attentively
talking too much
inability to control giggling
being reclusive
rushing around
shouting more than usual
clumsiness
difficulty making decisions
poor planning leading to over-tight schedules
reluctance to delegate
unkempt appearance
missing exercise workouts
not spending time on hobbies
empty social diary
being over-protective
playing it too safe
overspending and mounting debt
getting up or going to bed too late
nightmares
forgetting more than usual
missing appointments or birthdays
