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THE BLESSING
ALSO BY GREGORY ORR
Poetry
The Last Love Poem I Will Ever Write
River Inside the River
How Beautiful the Beloved
Concerning the Book That Is the Body of the Beloved
The Caged Owl: New and Selected Poems
Orpheus and Eurydice
City of Salt
New and Selected Poems
We Must Make a Kingdom of It
The Red House
Gathering the Bones Together
Burning the Empty Nests
Criticism
A Primer for Poets and Readers of Poetry
Poetry as Survival
Poets Teaching Poets: Self and the World, edited with Ellen Bryant Voigt
Richer Entanglements: Essays and Notes on Poetry and Poems
Stanley Kunitz: An Introduction to the Poetry
THE BLESSING
A Memoir
Gregory Orr
MILKWEED EDITIONS
© 2002, 2004, Text by Gregory Orr
Original edition published by Council Oak Books in Tulsa, OK.
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Published 2019 by Milkweed Editions
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Orr, Gregory, author.
Title: The blessing : a memoir / Gregory Orr.
Description: First Edition. | Minneapolis, MN : Milkweed Editions, 2019.
Identifiers: LCCN 2019001876 (print) | LCCN 2019013395 (ebook) | ISBN 9781571317223 (ebook) | ISBN 9781571313867 (pbk. : alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: Orr, Gregory—Childhood and youth. | Orr, Gregory—Family. | Poets, American—20th century—Biography.
Classification: LCC PS3565.R7 (ebook) | LCC PS3565.R7 Z46 2019 (print) | DDC 811/.54 [B]—dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2019001876
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For Trisha, who believed in this book
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