If You’re In the
Driver’s Seat,
Why Are You Lost?
Copyright © 2014 by Lawana Gladney
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Gladney, Lawana, 1963-
If you’re in the driver’s seat, why are you lost? : a roadmap to an amazing life / by Dr. Lawana Gladney.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-1-939529-08-4 (trade paper : alk. paper)—ISBN 978-1-939529-09-1
(electronic : alk. paper) 1. Self-confidence. 2. Adjustment (Psychology).
3. Adaptability (Psychology). I. Title.
BF575.S39G53 2014
158.1—dc23
2013029547
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To my loving mother, Shirley:
You have given me my emotional and
spiritual grounding, and
loved me through every part of my life’s journey.
To my wonderful children, Jordan, Bria, Jazzy, and Lexi:
I love you with every fiber of my being and feel honored
and blessed to carry the most prestigious title this world
has to offer: your mother.
To my angels, Charles and Chelsie:
You are forever in my heart.
Contents
Coping with a Broken GPS, No Maps, and No Directions
Defining Your Destiny
3The Main Road Block to Overcome
Defeating Your Insecurities
Facing—and Overcoming—Your Fears
5The Detour: You Thought It Made You Late
Dealing with Your Thoughts and Beliefs
6Traffic Jams: Your Words Can Cause Fender-Benders, Gridlock, or Worse
Controlling Your Tongue
Managing Your Emotions
Identifying and Veering Away from People Who Are Toxic
Solidifying Your Relationships
Treating Yourself Right—the Mind/Body Connection
Taming Your Finances
12The Bridges, Tunnels, and Mountain Passes of Life
Finding Joy and Peace Through Spirituality
