directly and they express their critical attitude nonverbally, too, through their posture. They can be vindictive. For their higher goals, characters from type 1 are ready to renounce something that is lower in their eyes and can become ascetics or puritans. Very often they tend to think that they are superior because of this renouncement. Sometimes they lead a double life, though in this life they break their own rules. Then they punish themselves for being hypocritical.
Danger
Characters from type 1 control their feelings greatly, but sometimes – and then totally unexpectedly, fierce anger breaks out and their whole dissatisfaction with the world is emptied out in a single blow. The trigger for this may be seemingly trivial that disturbs the order system of the 1. Later they are ashamed about this bout of anger. In order to avoid those bouts, they develop rational and total control of their reactions, a strong self-censorship.
Maturity
Characters from type 1 mature as soon as they accept the differences in people and the imperfection of the world. They must learn to forget their own order principles or at least not to force them upon others. When their reaction towards a conflict is relaxed and fair, their bouts of anger will not arise anymore. In this case people from type 1 can act in a wise and balanced way and even let go of things once in a while.
Entanglement
Character Development
Wings
Conflict Behaviour
Character 2 – Helpers Carers Usurpers
Heart-Type Blocked
Light
Characters from type 2 define themselves as being around for others. Twenty-four hours a day even to their own total self-sacrifice. They take an interest in other people’s lives, give generously of their love, time and money. They do this even when not asked to. If nobody else is left – you can always rely on a 2.
Shadow
The 2 does not give away their gifts unselfishly but in order to be needed and loved. If the expected thanks for their generosity fails to materialize, they get fickle or even angry. At this moment it becomes clear that with their gifts they want to make others dependent upon them – consciously or unconsciously. Seen like this, the behaviour of the 2 is a special kind of egoism – they serve in order to rule! The self-image of the 2 is completely dependent upon the praise of others. If it fails to appear, they break down. People from type 2 are permanently overcharged and weep a lot. Characters from type 2 need more understanding, acceptance and love than others and are not capable of being criticised.
Childhood Patterns
Characters from type 2 very often have had to fight for the praise and love of their parents by doing specifically positive deeds. They have the feeling that they were not loved for themselves. This is why they have internalised that love and appreciation must be acquired. During the childhood of the 2 there may have been an exchange of the parent-child role. it is also possible, that the adult two tends to ‘mother’ their parents in order to secure further love.
Dilemma
The problem of the 2 is in their seeking love but creating dependencies. On the fertile soil of one-sided giving, an equal relationship or love is not possible. This is why the 2 does not achieve what they long for the most – unconditional and honest affinity.
Inner Conflict
Characters from type 2 tend to exaggerate indulgence and flattery in order to prevent opposition from others against their charitable gifts. In partnerships, the 2 can be very dominant. They like to find partners that are weaker than they are who cannot escape easily. If other characters oppose their ideas, they can become a right dragon and walk over dead bodies. But there is no ill will behind their behaviour – it is their fear that they might not be accepted. The 2 suppress their own wishes, but when they give too much energy to others, they can reward themselves as compensation in the satisfaction of secret addictions like binge eating or sexual addiction.
Danger
For fear of losing control, the 2 hides their longing for love, tenderness and closeness. No one longs so much for love like the 2 and is at the same time so unable to have a relationship! This is why they do anything in order to be needed and so fall into the helper syndrome. But if someone rejects them, this can easily lead to pride.
Maturity
Characters from type 2 can mature if they love themselves unconditionally. Only then may they be able to love others. Selfless and humble, the mature 2 can be a reliable helper and friend.
Entanglement
Character Development
Wings
Conflict Behaviour
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