Psychological Problems and Their Big Deceptions. David W. Shave

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take to successfully accomplish what their secondary feelings now want accomplished. As it does this, it also increases the urgency and the worrying to reach those goals. When these people can’t reach those new goals, they may then develop emotional problems that mental health clinicians might recognize. Mental health professionals might erroneously feel these people are “willfully” setting too high a goal for themselves, when their goals aren’t being consciously set by them but instead, are being unconsciously set by their unrecognized increasing unconscious entity and the intensifying secondary feelings it produces. Since the goals are not being “willfully” set, advice to these people to lower their goals to decrease the stress they may now be feeling, isn’t helpful. To set their goals lower, and to feel there is less stress to accomplish those goals, they must first lower their self-felt unconscious entity to a more comfortable level. As a result of their lowering their self-felt unconscious entity, they will then tend to feel less of an urgency to do anything, and will tend to be less worried about things, so that they will feel less stressed. With their lowering their unconscious entity, they will meet more of their basic emotional need which will result in their feeling more acceptable about themselves just the way they are. They’ll feel more this way, the more their basic emotional need is better met.

      If these people don’t lower their uncomfortable level of unconscious entity, it may lead them to becoming depressed, or anxious, or phobic, or stressed out, or worried, or hypochondriacal, or obsessive-compulsive, or subject to panic attacks, or having pedophilic tendencies, or any other manifestation of an uncomfortable level of self-felt unconscious entity that can develop from different primary feelings, with different foci, and a kaleidoscopic array of possible secondary feelings, most of which can’t be predicted beforehand with any certainty. Where their self-felt unconscious entity is focused most, will be the predominant manifestation. It’s those very different primary and secondary feelings that are possible, that will determine how these people’s being emotionally uncomfortable will show itself. At any one time, the unconscious entity isn’t limited to producing only one primary feeling, and from that primary feeling only one secondary feeling. It can produce many different possible primary feelings, each with a different reality focus, and each with many different possible secondary feelings, so that there could be many varied manifestations of an uncomfortably increased unconscious entity in a person. Where one person might appear predominantly depressed, another might appear predominantly phobic. Rather than a predominance of any one manifestation, a person with an uncomfortable level of unconscious entity might appear anxious, depressed, stressed out, obsessive-compulsive, phobic, panicky, pedophilic, and hypochondriacal, all at the same time! But these manifestations would be less in intensity than if this person’s unconscious entity was more singularly focused in the person’s reality, with one primary feeling and one secondary feeling predominating.

      The possible manifestations of our increased self-felt unconscious entity often have a recognizable defensive purpose. This is best seen when the level of the unconscious entity is not producing a severe degree of being emotionally uncomfortable. Having any one or more of those primary and secondary feelings could be advantageous to us in the current reality that we might have. But what might be an asset at one level of unconscious entity, could become a liability at a higher level. For instance, with a primary feeling of being “out of place,” my secondary feeling might entail my putting in place things associated with my business that should be put in place, which could be highly advantageous for me in the reality I might have. I might be characterized as being a “stickler” for wanting things done in my business in a very certain way, and no other way, which could lead to my business becoming successful. But with too much unconscious entity focused this way, I might be obsessive-compulsive to a disadvantageous degree. As a housewife, with a primary feeling that my house is unclean, I might be noted for keeping a very clean house. But with more unconscious entity, my secondary feelings of needing to clean might make me constantly cleaning house so that I do little else but that, and still be unable to have the feeling that I have adequately done it “right.” The more my self-felt unconscious entity increases, and continues with the focus it has, the more increasingly difficult it will be for me to do that house-cleaning “right,” because what I will determine to be accomplished “right,” will be seen as more urgent, and will be more stringently determined. House-cleaning “right,” then becomes more difficult for me to attain as my unconscious entity increases. Any advice to me to “slow down” is worthless advice. I’ll continue to be obsessed with cleaning my house until I can lower the level of my self-felt unconscious entity. Or, with a primary feeling of an impending disaster, and an increasing level of unconscious entity, I might be increasingly worried and hyper-vigilant about taking risks for fear of encountering possible calamities which could be highly advantageous for me in the particular reality I might currently have. If I were in business, my being this way might make me less likely to have a financial disaster. As my unconscious entity increases further, what might have been an advantage to me in business, could now become a disadvantage when I become afraid to try anything new. With more unconscious entity, my secondary feelings might make me phobic, or perhaps subject to panic attacks, or being excessively worried and hyper-vigilant, or stressed out and always expecting the very worst thing to happen to my business or to me. I might become unable to leave my house for fear of an impending disaster that I might feel, or, with more unconscious entity, might “know” is waiting for me. Your telling me to “stop worrying” is worthless advice. I won’t change until I can lower the level of my self-felt unconscious entity.

      Reaching an outstanding level of success, that’s recognized by others, most often does require an uncomfortably increased unconscious entity in its self-felt form, which for some people, whether their field of endeavor is business, politics, law, religion, sports or any other endeavor, can lead to pedophilia. As an example of how an increased level of our self-felt unconscious entity may not create an emotional problem for us, but could benefit us, suppose you uncomfortably feel that your road-work and dieting for an upcoming marathon is “inadequate.” Because you hope to be the winner of the marathon, which you feel will make you feel happier, which we know can only be done by meeting better what might be unmet of your basic emotional need, you won’t want your preparation to be inadequate. That feeling that you experience about your preparation for the marathon being inadequate, could not only be arising from the reality of your preparation actually being inadequate, but it could also be arising from your self-felt unconscious entity in your unconscious providing a primary feeling of being “inadequate” that is focusing on your preparation for the marathon. (That feeling of being inadequate, may make a person feel uncomfortable sexually relating to adult females, and less uncomfortable sexually relating to under age males or females.) This could be a very small added component to your experienced feeling that your preparation is inadequate. If it is a large component, it could be the predominant cause for your uncomfortably feeling your preparation for running the marathon is inadequate. But because this unconscious component isn’t recognized, you’ll attribute the way you are feeling only to that which is arising from your perceived reality in regard to your preparation. What you might tell us in great detail, as to why you feel your preparation for the up-coming marathon is inadequate, and why you secondarily feel you have to urgently do much more in preparation, will be a rationalization. It’s a rationalization because it leaves out what is arising, unrecognized, from your unconscious entity, which could be a predominant component of your feeling your preparation is inadequate. It’s your accompanying unmet basic emotional need that’s focused on the up-coming marathon, and your increased unconscious entity, that together, could be the unrecognized driving force in your preparation for coming in “first” in the marathon.

      That part of your feeling your preparation for an upcoming marathon is inadequate that is arising from your increased self-felt unconscious entity, is a primary feeling of that entity. It’s just one of the many ways that your increased self-felt unconscious entity could have shown itself. Your unconscious entity, rather than focusing on your preparation for an upcoming marathon, might have manifested itself with a different primary feeling, with a different focus on anything identified with you, such as your appearance, your work, your health, your secret sexual preferences, your financial worth, your past, your future, or anything else about you. You’d then have a different secondary feeling which would present how the focus of that primary

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