Yes.
Physician: So you’re getting all your insulin and testing your blood glucose five times per day as I asked you to do?
Teen: Yes.
Example: Collaborative Language
Physician: So, my guess is, like most people with diabetes, you are pretty good at some parts of your diabetes management, while other things are harder to do or to remember to do. Tell me, what is going well with your diabetes self-management?
Teen: I always remember to take my Lantus and I’m good about counting carbs.
Physician: Excellent. How are you able to remember to take your Lantus all the time?
Teen: It’s actually pretty easy because I take my Lantus in the evening and since I am getting ready for bed it has just become a routine.
Physician: What is harder for you to do?
Teen: Well, I don’t always remember to take my Humalog at lunch because I don’t want to go to the office when everyone else is eating.
Two more words that imply purposeful, mean-spirited behavioral choices are sneaking and cheating. Parents frequently report that their teen is sneaking food or cheating on a meal plan or eating the “wrong foods.” What we ask parents in these situations is, “Since when does eating food become sneaking or cheating? When did eating food become a clandestine activity?” In addition, using these terms with teens turns the eating of food into a cat-and-mouse game between parents and their teens. The more that a teen feels he or she is doing something wrong, the better he or she gets at hiding it. Knowing what someone is eating is critical for proper diabetes care so that proper adjustments can be made in insulin. Therefore, it is vital to set the stage for open communication and problem solving about eating choices, instead of creating an environment where the goal is avoiding conversations with parents.
Many years ago, before the advent of short-acting insulin such as Novalog or Humalog, the consumption of simple sugars was discouraged. However, with short-acting insulin, people with diabetes are now able to eat as they wish and minimize a spike in blood glucose. Clearly, whether or not you have diabetes, moderate consumption of most types of foods is the way to go. However, many teens feel punished for having diabetes, and restricting what types of food they can or should eat will contribute to a backlash, with the teens eating more of the foods we would encourage them to limit and/or not telling anyone what they are really eating.
Many health care providers, as well as parents of teens with diabetes, say that teens don’t care about their diabetes. As with many of the other things that are said about teens with diabetes, this statement is factually inaccurate. Not caring about one’s diabetes would translate into not doing anything to care for one’s diabetes, such as not taking any insulin, never checking blood glucose levels, eating whatever and whenever, and never obtaining medical care for diabetes. This just doesn’t happen in diabetes. What does happen is that teens don’t adhere at the level that medical providers and parents would like them to. Instead of five or seven blood glucose checks per day, a teen may be checking his or her blood glucose five or seven times per week or per month. This reflects less-than-optimal self-care, but it also reflects an effort on the teen’s part to care for his or her diabetes. This may seem insignificant to most health care professionals working with this population; however, any self-care effort represents an opportunity to reinforce a teen for doing the right thing. Most interactions between health care professionals and teens with diabetes are void of anything positive unless the teen’s metabolic control is in the 7% range, which is unlikely.
Reinforcing a teen for even showing up to clinic represents a move in the right direction and provides leverage for improvements in health behaviors. As one of our beloved colleagues (Dr. Richard R. Rubin) often said, there is only one acceptable response when a person checks blood glucose (regardless of the number on the meter at the time): “Thank you for checking.” It is the behavior of checking that we want to reinforce, as such acknowledgement increases the chance of that person checking again.
Having a patient take sole responsibility for diabetes should not be a goal of any diabetes clinic, regardless of the age of the patient. Yet providers and parents often talk about the need for teens to “take responsibility” for their diabetes. What does this mean? In most cases, it means that teens should do all that is necessary for optimal diabetes care completely by themselves without anyone reminding them of what they need to do. Because teens are sensitive to the words we use, the need to “take responsibility for diabetes” is heard as “You are irresponsible.” Teens lose their house keys, forget homework assignments, oversleep, etc. Why would anyone expect them to treat diabetes-related tasks differently than other tasks?
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