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So How’s the Family?
and Other Essays
ALSO BY ARLIE HOCHSCHILD
The Outsourced Self: Intimate Life in Market Times The Commercialization of Intimate Life: Notes from Home and Work Global Woman: Nannies, Maids, and Sex Workers in the New Economy (coeditor)
The Time Bind: When Work Becomes Home and Home Becomes Work The Second Shift: Working Parents and the Revolution at Home The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling The Unexpected Community: Portrait of an Old Age Subculture Coleen the Question Girl (a children’s story)
So How’s the Family?
AND OTHER ESSAYS
ARLIE RUSSELL HOCHSCHILD
UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA PRESS
BerkeleyLos AngelesLondon
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Hochschild, Arlie Russell, 1940-
So how’s the family? : and other essays / Arlie Russell Hochschild.
pagescm.
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-0-520-27227-9 (cloth : alk. paper)
ISBN 978-0-520-27228-6 (pbk.: alk. paper)
eISBN 978-0-520-95678-0
1. Families—United States.2. Women—Social conditions.3. United States—Social conditions—1980-I. Title.
HQ536.H6324 2013
306.850973—dc232013003818
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For Rosa and Sonia
To see what is in front of one’s nose needs a constant struggle.
George Orwell
Contents
Acknowledgments | ||
Introduction | ||
THE FEEL OF THINGS | ||
1. | Going on Attachment Alert | |
2. | Can Emotional Labor Be Fun? | |
3. | Empathy Maps | |
FAMILIES, CLASS GAPS, AND TIME | ||
4. | So How’s the Family? | |
5. | Time Strategies | |
6. | The Diplomat’s Wife | |
BOUNDARIES AND BLURS, MARKET AND HOME | ||
7. | The Personalized Market and the Marketized Self(with Sarah Garrett) | |
8. | At Home in the Office(with Barrie Thorne) | |
9. | Rent-a-Mom | |
WOMEN ON THE GLOBAL BACKSTAGE | ||
10. | Two-Way Global Traffic in Care | |
11. | Children Left Behind(with S. Uma Devi and Lise Isaksen) | |
12. | The Surrogate’s Womb | |
Notes | ||
Bibliography | ||
Credits | ||
Index |
Acknowledgments
Many thanks to Naomi Schneider of the University of California Press, who shepherded these essays into print with such heartening enthusiasm and care, and to the artist who drew the picture on the cover of the book, her eight-year-old daughter. And thanks for an extremely careful job to Christopher Lura, production editor Brian Ostrander at Westchester Publishing Services, and copy editor Vickie West.
Thanks to the anonymous readers for the Press and to Neil Smelser and Rob Willer for their extremely helpful comments on the manuscript, especially on “Empathy Maps.” A very special thanks to Allison Pugh for a bracing but fantastic tough-love read that rescued me from the idea that I was done. Warm thanks to Sarah Garrett, my gifted co-author on “The Personalized Market and the Marketized Self” and comrade-in-arms through the long process of updating statistics and integrating fresh readings into the text. To Bonnie Kwan, deep thanks for her help through every stage of production, her loyal friendship, and her delicious sense of the absurd. To Anita Garey and Karen Hansen, I give my deep thanks for our safely probing conversations during summer visits over the years, a precious gift to this book and to me. To Adam, my deepest gratitude for taking time from his own emerging book on the Spanish Civil War to patiently revisit long-discussed ideas, and for all that he does and is.
And to Rosa, 7, whose leprechaun trap sits waiting on our kitchen floor, and to Sonia, 5, who offered me her most precious box of colored sequins, I dedicate this book.
Introduction
Most of the essays in this book originated as scribbles and exclamation points on yellow, lined paper, and they were often a puzzle to decipher months later. From there, they grew into public lectures, which found their way into print mostly in the last decade, and here they are newly revised. Two essays, “So How’s the Family?” and “Empathy Maps,” I wrote expressly for this book, while one essay, “The Diplomat’s Wife,” is the very first one I wrote.
Re-reading that essay decades later, I recall a powerful split between two parts of myself—one geared to “doing” and the other to “figuring things out.” The year was 1965. Movements of social justice were sweeping the nation as well as the University of California at Berkeley campus where I was a graduate student in sociology. The civil rights movement was on, and I was fresh from a stint teaching black history at Palmer Institute in Sedalia, North Carolina, and work as a freedom school teacher in Vicksburg, Mississippi. Almost weekly, hundreds of Free Speech activists protesting a ban on students’ rights to sit behind political activity tables in the central plaza were being bused to jail. Fourteen thousand students and others opposed to the Vietnam War marched from the campus to an Oakland army base, holding signs such as “Peace in Vietnam,” “Return to the Geneva Convention,” or in one case, simply “Why?” Barred from the base, students were tear-gassed, beaten, and