The Tao of Birth Days. Denny Sargent
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Negative Tendencies
Problems can arise when things are not clear-cut for these individuals. The urge to make things so may be hard to overcome, as might be a fixation on structure, dogma, and hierarchy for its own sake. Law and order, anyone? These people can be effective leaders, generals, but they can also be bossy and arrogant. They may be inclined to use force in delicate situations, which should be avoided unless absolutely necessary. Interestingly enough, a real problem here might be confusion and the dispersion of energies. When not single-minded, these people can too easily be no-minded, split, and torn in many directions, spinning their wheels in the sand, up against a wall. This can be true for emotions, which are often very confusing for them. Often the emotional life of such people will not be as clear as, say, career.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
HEXAGRAM 1: | THE CREATIVE |
HEXAGRAM 44: | COMING TO MEET |
HEXAGRAM 33: | RETREAT |
HEXAGRAM 12: | STANDSTILL |
HEXAGRAM 20: | CONTEMPLATION |
HEXAGRAM 23: | SPLITTING APART |
HEXAGRAM 35: | PROGRESS |
HEXAGRAM 14: | POSSESSION IN GREAT MEASURE |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
HEXAGRAM 2: | THE RECEPTIVE |
HEXAGRAM 24: | RETURN |
HEXAGRAM 19: | APPROACH |
HEXAGRAM 11: | PEACE |
HEXAGRAM 34: | THE POWER OF THE GREAT |
HEXAGRAM 43: | BREAKTHROUGH |
HEXAGRAM 5: | WAITING |
HEXAGRAM 8: | HOLDING TOGETHER |
HEXAGRAM 8
Traits | |
Gradually progressing | Calming |
Uncertain | Collective energy |
Needs reassurance | Difficulty discriminating |
Open and caring | Verifies |
Receptive and insecure | Unsure |
Consistent if progressing | Confused |
Persevering | Mediator |
Hesitates at wrong time | Idealistic |
Zen-like | Drawn to oracles |
Inspired | Very centered |
Joining to others | Unifying or chaotic |
Collective spirit |
Life Lessons
These people need to pay attention to time; they need to learn when to go and when to stay—and when to throw caution to the wind and go for it.
Positive Tendencies
These are open, caring individuals who freely give nurturing and friendship to those around them. Not one to stand out, they communicate and are creative in a sublime and subtle manner. Here are people who grow, mature, and gain all sorts of things gradually in increments, no great leaps of evolution here. The gentler aspects of things, of the world, and of cultures makes the most impression and brings the most joy to them. These people are naturally drawn to fortune-telling, oracles, and the like and may have some talent at them—they may even be psychic. They are very civic-minded and are often drawn to groups and duties that aim to better society. They are very conscientious in this way, voting, recycling, contributing to charities, and so on. If progress, however slow, is being made, then these people will be extremely consistent, supportive, and very persuasive. They are great joiners who unite others and thrive in projects that elicit a collective spirit, a movement, or creative extravaganza. These people become a center of unity in such cases and have a calming and holistic energy that helps everyone and draws everyone together. Timing is everything for these individuals, so if they pay attention, great things can be initiated.
Negative Tendencies
Put another way, these people may often miss the boat when they aren’t paying attention. Lost opportunities due to caution, slowness, or inability to look ahead can be a major pitfall. Another possible problem for them is lost momentum. If these people don’t see progress, they are inclined to give up too easily. Hesitation or self-doubt can kill projects, relationships, and self-confidence! These people should ignore doubts when sure of their goal; perseverance furthers! Such people may be somewhat egotistical and may try to take on leadership duties they are not fit for. They may get lost when alone, needing others too much to bolster their self-image.
Compatibility
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a positive reaction to:
HEXAGRAM 30: | THE CLINGING FIRE |
HEXAGRAM 56: | THE WANDERER |
HEXAGRAM 50: | THE CAULDRON |
HEXAGRAM 64: | BEFORE COMPLETION |
HEXAGRAM 4: | YOUTHFUL FOLLY |
HEXAGRAM 59: | DISPERSION |
HEXAGRAM 6: | CONFLICT |
HEXAGRAM 13: | FELLOWSHIP WITH MEN |
The following natal hexagrams represent people you naturally tend to have a negative reaction to:
HEXAGRAM 29: | THE ABYSMAL |
HEXAGRAM 60: | LIMITATION |
HEXAGRAM 3: | INITIAL DIFFICULTY |
HEXAGRAM 63: | AFTER COMPLETION |
HEXAGRAM 49: | REVOLUTION |
HEXAGRAM 55: | ABUNDANCE |
HEXAGRAM 36: | DARKENING OF THE LIGHT |
HEXAGRAM 7: | THE ARMY |
HEXAGRAM 9
Traits | |
Subtle | Depressed |
Shallow | Pessimist |
Long-winded | Easily frustrated |
Frivolous | Gracious |
Reserved | Spacey |
Decorative | Patient |
Skin-deep | Detail-oriented |
Clever | Fussy |
Witty | Picky |
Subdued | Open-minded |
Fickle | Positive attitude |
Flexible |
Life Lessons
These people need to understand that “talking does not cook the rice,” that being clever is not necessarily being smart, and that they need to learn to stick with things.
Positive Tendencies
These are clever people who can spin a tale and entertain as well as live by their wits, but they are naturally very shy and reserved. These people are very flexible and can be all things to all people. Good front men or women, here we have the natural, easygoing, go-with-the-flow type who can put a positive spin on things and show the proper face to the right people. Detail-oriented, they finish tasks in an efficient and exacting manner as well as remember small points and complex ideas. They have a good sense of decoration, of colors and decor. They are the perfect helper and creative worker. These people create tremendous atmosphere and can subtly influence others in a variety of ways. They are excellent at delicate discussions and at dealing with difficult or tense people in a calm and careful way. Never overbearing or aggressive, they are usually friendly and sweet people who keep their