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Notoriously Dapper
How to be a Modern Gentleman with Manners, Style, and Body Confidence.
by
Kelvin Davis
Copyright © 2017 Kelvin Davis.
Published by Mango Publishing Group, a division of Mango Media Inc.
Cover Design: Roberto Núñez
Layout & Design: Roberto Núñez
Photography: Michele Jordan Davis
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Notoriously Dapper: How to be a Modern Gentleman with Manners, Style, and Body Confidence.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication number: 2017952274
ISBN: (paperback) 978-1-63353-621-0, (ebook) 978-1-63353-622-7
BISAC category code:
SEL023000 SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Self-Esteem
REF011000 REFERENCE / Etiquette
Printed in the United States of America
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 Gentleman, Redefined
Chapter 4 Benefits of Being Body Confident
Chapter 5 Choosing to Be Great
Chapter 7 The Art of Courtship
Chapter 8 Modeling Good Behavior
Chapter 9 Behavior at the Workplace
Chapter 10 Marriage, Money & Morality
Chapter 11 First Time Fatherhood
Chapter 14 Infidelity: How to Prevent and Deal
Chapter 15 Love, Laugh, and Live Your Life
“Every dream starts with a vision. Every vision begins with a passion. Every passion starts with love.”
– Notoriously Dapper
On September 10, 1987, a boy was born in Columbia, South Carolina. Little did he know what life held for him, how blessed he would be, and how much love he would share with the world. That little boy grew up to be me. Hey, for those who don’t know me, I’m Kelvin C. Davis II, the creator and founder of Notoriously Dapper, a body positive men’s style blog. I have always been fascinated with art and fashion – seeing pictures of really well dressed people always intrigued me. I have always felt that pictures say so much more than words. Style can do the same. So naturally, when you add them both together, they evoke an array of feelings, thoughts, and words that come to mind. The story of my 30-year journey to becoming a body positive gentleman will hopefully help you embrace your own journey and find the beauty in the struggle. There have been plenty of books written about etiquette for men; you may ask, what makes mine different? That’s a good question. My perspective is what makes this different. Let’s face it; I’m a young, black, male millennial. Although I have been blessed with parents who are amazing, loving, and supportive, simply being who I am in society has been rough for me some days.
Growing up in the white suburbs of Irmo, South Carolina, caused some confusion for me. People would often tell me that I talked “white” and dressed “white.” I didn’t really understood what that meant until my middle school years, when I moved to Orangeburg for two years (7th and 8th grade). Being constantly told that I didn’t act “black” was kind of confusing for me. I mean, I listened to rap music, I could dance, and I was clearly black. But for some, I guess I was never “black” enough. During this time, I was also shopping in the “husky” section. My mom would make it seem special, as if it was this exclusive shopping club for cool kids. She has a way of making me feel better about things. I remember in middle school, a girl told me she liked my jeans! I was excited because she was one of the “popular” girls and was super sexy. She asked where I got them from, and I told her with all the pride in my voice, “These are from the “husky” section.” She laughed and said, “You mean the fat boy section?” I was like, “Nah, the husky section.” She then notified me that “husky” was a nice way of saying “fat boy.”That was my first time being called fat, and I have to admit it hurt me. I felt shamed and didn’t want to shop in the husky