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      Bullying in the

      Churches

      Stephen Finlan

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      Bullying in the Churches

      Copyright © 2015 Stephen Finlan. All rights reserved. Except for brief quotations in critical publications or reviews, no part of this book may be reproduced in any manner without prior written permission from the publisher. Write: Permissions. Wipf and Stock Publishers, 199 W. 8th Ave., Suite 3, Eugene, OR 97401.

      Cascade Books

      An Imprint of Wipf and Stock Publishers

      199 W. 8th Ave., Suite 3

      Eugene, OR 97401

      www.wipfandstock.com

      ISBN 13: 978-1-62564-722-1

      EISBN 13: 978-1-4982-7062-5

      Cataloguing-in-Publication Data

      Finlan, Stephen.

      Bullying in the churches / Stephen Finlan.

      X + Y p. ; 23 cm. Includes bibliographical references and indexes.

      ISBN 13: 978-1-62564-722-1

      1. Bullying in churches—Prevention. 2. Conflict management. I. Title.

      BF637 .B85 F55 2015

      Manufactured in the U.S.A. 02/10/2015

      Abbreviations

      Col Colossians

      1 Cor First Corinthians

      2 Cor Second Corinthians

      Eph Ephesians

      ESV English Standard Version

      Gal Galatians

      KJV King James Version

      Matt Matthew

      NASB New American Standard Bible

      NCV New Century Version

      NEB New English Bible

      NRSV New Revised Standard Version

      Phil Philippians

      Phlm Philemon

      Prov Proverbs

      Ps Psalm

      Pss Psalms

      Rom Romans

      RSV Revised Standard Version

      SBL Society of Biblical Literature

      SBLDS Society of Biblical Literature Dissertation Series

      Wis Wisdom of Solomon

      Introduction

      Many of us were inspired to preach the gospel, and we committed our lives to a church, only to find out, upon seeing the inner workings of our church, that it was not based on a healthy foundation. How is it that the place where we go for healing and inspiration has become a center of bullying and power grabbing, at many levels within the organization? How has the place that is supposed to show Jesus’ spirit in action become the home of dishonesty?

      Do any of these stories resonate with your experience?

      As part of her seminary education, a student is given a supervised ministry assignment in a large inner-city church. She arrives with anticipation and hope. Time passes. The senior pastor does not set up the supervisory committee that is supposed to meet with the student until near the end of the first semester, and the committee’s report is not finished by the seminary’s due date. When the student asks the senior pastor about it, she is told “You are not so important; you are just a small piece within this church. The paperwork will get done.” The report in the second semester is also not turned in by the deadline, and when the student asks the pastor about it, she is yelled at.

      A student finishes his master of divinity degree and gets his first assignment as an assistant pastor. One of his duties is to lead a Bible study. He asks the participants of his Bible study to write some responses to a passage from Isaiah, but the activity is interrupted by the senior pastor, who stops people from writing and announces, “They don’t want to write about that; just ask them general questions.” When the assistant pastor goes to the pastor a few days later to ask why that was done, the senior pastor says, “These people don’t do biblical analysis. You don’t know what they can do. I know.” The pastor then asks to see the assistant pastor’s teaching plan for the Bible study, and tosses out most of what the assistant had planned, insisting that this congregation does not want to analyze what Isaiah said.

      A pastor organizes a choir among poor and homeless clients of the church, and they perform a skit with music on Sunday. At the coffee hour following the service, some congregation members make sarcastic comments, even though some of the poor singers are within earshot; one refers sarcastically to the “tuneless choir”; another responds, “or the toothless choir,” and there is some chuckling.

      I intend in this book to look at many aspects of bullying. I will not name names, nor indicate particular denominations, but will draw upon recent experiences people have had in many different Protestant denominations. There are additional and different dynamics in Catholic churches, but someone else needs to write that book.

      1 — The Problem and the Response

      Biblical Antecedents

      Of course, bullying has been around from the beginning. We see it in many Bible stories. Sometimes the reasons for the bullying are given. Joseph’s brothers hated him because he was their father’s favorite, and when he told them his dream, “they hated him even more” (Gen 37:3–5). They thought him arrogant, “this dreamer.” Conspiring to kill him, “they took him and threw him into a pit,” but then settled on merely selling him into slavery (Gen 37:18–19,

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