she had ever used drugs, what type, and how many times. She wrote that she’d used methamphetamine thirty to forty times, most recently in May 1995, and cocaine and marijuana twice each. She checked “yes,” that she’d been arrested, jailed, or charged with, convicted of or pleaded guilty to a crime.
She also checked “yes,” that she’d been fired or asked to resign. “I was let go from employment at California Pizza Kitchen because of bill discrepancies and mistakes,” she wrote. “I was using drugs at the time, which influenced my performance.”
During an interview in the personnel office on October 6, Kristin was told that her application had been denied because of her admitted drug use. She didn’t say anything to Barnhart until he called and asked if she’d heard anything.
“Frank,” he later recalled her saying, “I have got to tell you, I just told them that I used methamphetamine a couple times when I was in high school, and that did it.”
Barnhart was shocked. He had no idea. He couldn’t believe she never said anything before they went through the application process. He felt embarrassed that he had to tell his supervisor and colleagues she’d failed the background check. He also felt as though she’d betrayed their friendship a little. But true friends stick together through the good and the bad, and he decided not to give up on Kristin. If she’d used drugs only a couple of times and it was so many years ago, he thought, she might still qualify for an entry-level criminalist position. So some months later, he suggested that Kristin apply for one. He offered to look at the application—before she submitted it, this time—so she brought it over to his house with Greg in tow.
To him, Greg seemed like a really nice kid, but overly protective of Kristin—so much so that it made Barnhart uncomfortable. They all started off in the living room, watching some TV, then Barnhart took Kristin into his home office. They weren’t gone for more than a couple of minutes when Greg joined them. Barnhart didn’t understand why Greg was so worried about leaving Kristin alone with him.
This time she scored a ninety-five on her application. Later Barnhart said she must not have disclosed her previous drug use on that form or she wouldn’t have scored so high. She didn’t get that job, either. The supervisor of controlled substances, who reviewed the application, told him he found out why she’d failed the original background check and decided that the Sheriff’s Department wouldn’t be an appropriate environment for her.
Even though the Sheriff’s Department and the Medical Examiner’s Office were sister county agencies, the sheriff’s staff didn’t share any of this information with Kristin’s superiors.
Kristin and her high school friend Melissa Prager grew apart once they went away to college, but they became friends again after Kristin moved to San Diego and enrolled at SDSU. Prager, who came home from college in Ohio during the summer, spent weekends with her parents at their house in Encinitas, a small coastal city just north of San Diego. Prager tried to get together with Kristin while she was in the area.
The problem was that she never got to see Kristin alone. The first time she came over to visit Kristin at the apartment, Greg wouldn’t make eye contact with Prager. She thought he seemed standoffish and not very interested in her, but he simply wouldn’t leave the room. She wondered if he felt threatened by their friendship. Prager also found him too possessive and controlling of her friend, who had always seemed so strong-willed and independent. Prager recalled that when she asked Kristin to meet for lunch, Kristin would say things like, “Greg and I, um, think it would be better if you came to the house.”
Kristin described Greg as some sort of “savior” and said she was happy he was “keeping her on track.” Prager often wondered why Kristin had done drugs but had never gotten a good explanation.
“I’ve never been able to talk to her about it,” she said later.
Back when they were in high school together, Prager wondered if Kristin was doing drugs, because she wouldn’t eat anything at dinner, she’d breathe heavily, she looked nervous, and something in her voice sounded “really fake.” But when Prager asked Kristin if she was doing drugs, she said no.
Since Kristin’s parents were such a strong influence in her life, Prager said, perhaps Kristin did drugs to have “something of her own,” a part of her life in which she wasn’t trying to please them or anyone else.
“Her parents put a lot of academic pressure on her, a lot of pressure in general,” she said.
When it came time to get married, Prager thought Kristin was succumbing to a different kind of pressure, and this time it was coming from Greg. It was as if she felt obligated to Greg because he’d helped her get off drugs. Prager thought Kristin loved him, felt loved by him, and had convinced herself that she should marry him. But she never got the impression that Kristin was in love with Greg. Prager thought Kristin was also motivated by a sense that her parents viewed proceeding with the wedding as the right thing to do.
“They completely inserted themselves” into Kristin’s life, she said.
Kristin asked Prager to be her maid of honor, but Prager felt uncomfortable about accepting the offer.
“I was hesitant to be in it because I wasn’t that supportive of it,” she said.
When Prager found out that her brother was getting married in Israel in early July, she told Kristin she couldn’t attend her wedding and was going to her brother’s instead.
Apparently, Kristin wasn’t too sure about her marriage plans, either, because she kept saying she wasn’t certain the wedding was going to happen.
Jan Genovese, who was a Chemistry Department secretary at SDSU while Kristin was a student there, got to know her after she was honored for being the Most Outstanding Chemistry Student in 1998. Kristin would come into the office, and the two of them would chat. Kristin made quite an impression on Genovese.
“She was so magnetic, especially to men,” Genovese said. “There weren’t a lot of beautiful chemistry students.”
Genovese thought Kristin played to her professors a bit, presenting herself in the best way possible for advancement. But, at the same time, Kristin seemed extremely needy.
In May 1999, Genovese ran into Kristin and a male student in the hallway, as she often did. The student, who lived near Kristin and Greg, had gotten to know Kristin in class and was about to graduate. He was a tall, athletic, premed student with chiseled features, nice parents, and a good background, just Kristin’s type.
That day in the hallway, Kristin announced she was getting married. Her comment caught Genovese by surprise, but apparently not as much as the student. An expression of shock crossed his face. Genovese got the impression that Kristin was, frankly, bored by the prospect of marriage.
“What?” Genovese asked in disbelief. “You’re getting married?”
The male student remained silent. As they watched Kristin walk away, Genovese recalled him saying, “Well, she’s sure hot to trot for someone who’s engaged.”
Genovese and the student had become friendly over the years, so she felt comfortable telling him what she thought. Kristin seemed so ambivalent that Genovese thought she would call off the wedding. Genovese also thought that Kristin and the student would continue the close relationship that was apparent to her whenever she saw them together.
“You could do worse,” she told him.
But the student
