Melrose Arch and Michelangelo Towers in Sandton where so much of her turbulent life would play out.
The story of how she got there and beyond is fascinating. Her values and her relationships are symbolic of deeper changes in our society, changes having to do with wealth and power, politics and media. Hers is a very contemporary life. She remains one of the most talked-about local pop celebrities of our time. And here she is, Khanyi up close and personal. All the bits you didn’t know, may have forgotten and never even knew you didn’t know. Plus the shocking truth behind the rumours. Here’s the Khanyi you’ve been dying to see.
1. The Queen of England
We are being chauffeur-driven in a roaring 1960s Rolls Royce Phantom to the 2011 South African Music Awards (SAMAs) at Montecasino, north of Johannesburg. A car fit for stars like Elizabeth Taylor and Aretha Franklin. Kate Middleton, the Duchess of Cambridge, had arrived in one for her wedding at Westminster Abbey a few days earlier. But the Phantom doesn’t impress Khanyi at all. I’m in front and she and her sister Thandeka are curled up in the back on the newly upholstered leather. She would have much preferred something flashier like a Bentley and makes a face as we slow down over the speed bumps to preserve the classic car with its creaky wheels.
Khanyi looks tomboyish and a bit like Charlie Chaplin in a tux and bow tie. It’s a bold look fashion bloggers celebrate for its daring and originality. Very Khanyi. She asks our driver what champagne has been arranged for the short trip from Sandton to Fourways.
“JC Le Roux,” he says.
You could have heard a pin drop. Khanyi gives him a look that would melt steel. The temperature has plummeted in here.
“And you think it all goes together? A Rolls Royce and the Sandton address? Did you check the address before you collected JC?”
He doesn’t answer.
Her blue contact lenses seem to burn with rage. The driver says something about the JC already being packed. Luckily for him the notoriously busy Rivonia Road is clear for once and we zoom past the traffic lights. Through the window the setting Highveld sun has a glorious orange glow. We’ll make it. Then Khanyi shrieks. She’s forgotten her phone at home. She can’t demand a U-turn because we’re already late. I give her my phone so she can assure her music collaborator and Kalawa Jazmee mogul, DJ Oskido, that we are on our way. Fine. Done. Then she shrieks again. Everything is out loud with Khanyi. A big song and dance. She is a natural-born attention-seeker. The R80 000 Kate Middleton replica engagement ring that Browns Jewellers gave her for the SAMAs is absent from a newly manicured finger.
“This was its debut,” she whines.
Then remembers it’s where she left it at home, along with her phone. Khanyi forgot to put it on. The mood in the Phantom has soured. We don’t touch the champagne.
Out in the dusk, the crowd chants: Khaanyee . . . Khaanyee . . . Khaanyee . . .! They ignore the celebs unfortunate enough to arrive at the same time. Khanyi looks immaculate in the rippling flashes of popping cameras. This is her home. She drinks in the adoration and it seems to make her younger. Smooths her skin, deepens her glow and crowns her as someone special. It’s amazing to see her transform from the sourpuss in the Phantom to this poised, glamorous star. She has many selves she can flip through and put on to fit the occasion. She is her own best accessory.
Khanyi is ushered in and instantly abandons me. I’m left to secure the VIP tags that’ll let me sit next to her at her table. I rush up and down Montecasino from one event organiser to the next but none of them have my tickets or VIP tags. A lowly entertainment journo like me has been left dangling in the wind. Luckily DJ Oskido passes by and I lay my plight on him. He has a spare “artist” tag that’ll get me in. I’m finally seated behind the band with an unobstructed view of their behinds.
Later Khanyi has swapped the tux for a security guard uniform, topped off with a becoming beret, to perform with kwaito star Professor, who, with multiple well-deserved awards, turns out to be the night’s big winner. Seeing Khanyi up there drives the crowd in the dome insane. Her face is multiplied on giant screens around the venue as she works it onstage to Ijimaphi and Jezebel. This is the highlight of the night by far. Khanyi owns the dome. She feels bigger than ever in that moment. A genuine star.
The change of costume is symbolic. From tux to security guard, upper to lower class. The dichotomy is in her. Contributing parts of her personality, her drive, her approach to the world. She is someone who sips Mumm Champagne yet is happy wolfing down a kota (a small bunny chow) on a street corner. She contains multitudes of personalities, as anyone who symbolises a nation’s secret hopes and dreams must. A shameless celebrity who dates rich old men and destroys marriages on her way to the good life on the one hand, and on the other a darling of the crowds, who see her as an avatar of a better life.
She resonates with people who want to better themselves. With anyone who wants to be someone. She is a real star and a lucky girl from ekasi (the township) who’s done good. She’s just like us, but more motivated somehow, more maniacally driven to be someone.
Khanyi was born at Florence Nightingale Hospital in Hillbrow in Johannesburg on the evening of 15 October 1985. Her mother, Lynette Sisi Mbau, was a 25-year-old corporate climber working in the finance department of the pension fund at Barclays Bank. She insisted on a private hospital rather than a crowded public one in Soweto. It was a gesture that would define her daughter’s life – always the more expensive option. The urge to be exceptional.
Khanyi’s father, Menzi Mcunu, was not in the delivery room. They weren’t married and no lobola had been paid. The young couple were only dating. Mcunu had no claim to the child but he named her nevertheless: Khanyisile, one who brings light. The baby kept her mother’s surname. It made her different right away. Lynette soon left baby Khanyi with her parents in Mofolo, Soweto, and returned to work.
Gladys Felicity Mbazane-Mbau, Khanyi’s granny, would virtually raise her. She was a remarkable woman, very capable, and respected by the community as a specialist midwife at the Rand Mutual Clinic in the city. She was to be Khanyi’s rock. The source of her self-esteem and the uncomplicated support she needed through the bad times.
Even her genealogy is exceptional. Khanyi is undoubtedly the most famous person of Fijian origin in South Africa. The Mbaus can be traced back to the South Pacific Melanasian island nation of Fiji. Her ancestors were possibly missionaries who came to South Africa and ultimately mixed with the locals. Other versions of the family history involve slaves from the east who worked for the Dutch East India Company, much like the Cape Malays, during the time of Jan van Riebeeck.
Her talented grandfather, Babes Mbau, played alongside Hugh Masekela in the Sophiatown days of the 1950s. He was a fine musician and delighted his granddaughter with yarns from that romantic era. Tales of bands like the Manhattan Brothers, The Woodpeckers and The Skylarks, and unforgettable songbirds like Dolly Rathebe, Miriam Makeba, Dorothy Masuka and Thandie Klaasen. He talked about the camaraderie of community halls and the spirit of resistance in the streets. It was before the apartheid government tore down “Sof’town”, the terrible destruction of a black Bohemian enclave, and forced everyone to go to Dobsonville and Meadowlands in Soweto. Adding insult to injury, they turned it into a whites-only suburb called Triomf (Triumph). It was the most creative time in Babes’ life. Bright-eyed Khanyi listened to these stories at the old man’s feet and she has a real feeling for jazz to this day.
Her first awareness of romance was the story of her grandparents’ love. They met one evening in Sophiatown.
