Love. Barbara H. Rosenwein
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But not in all. And therein lie the emotional communities of love. For even as some people see “true love” to be patterned on Christ’s gratuitous self-sacrifice, others understand it as an ecstatic experience that takes them beyond the earthly realm. And others adhere to still different enduring narratives of love. These fantasies and their transformations over time form the chapters of this book. Yet it is only their entwined histories that allow us to glimpse the many-faceted, indeed kaleidoscopic, history of love within the Western tradition because, to some degree, they always played off of one another – and because they are all available to us, however loyally we may adhere to one or the other.
Unlike some scientists today, I do not wish to claim what love is. Contrary to many philosophers, I have no idea what it should be. And, unlike intellectual historians, I do not want simply to survey past theories of love (though some of those theories do enter into my discussion). I want to understand what people think love is today and what they have thought it was in the past. I want to include women in the story. And I want to cite both “real” people and what they said about their loves alongside the fictions that so often provide the scaffolding for the fantasies of love that we elaborate and hang on to.
I have chosen five persistent narratives. In the first chapter, I take up the fantasy of like-minded love. I continue with love’s transcendence – the notion that it takes us to a higher realm. Love as freedom as opposed to obligation is the subject of chapter 3, while chapter 4 confronts the fantasy that true love is obsessive and chapter 5 that it is insatiable. Each chapter is focused on a different modality and experience of love, all of which have long histories within the Western tradition. While they overlap at certain points, it may be said that like-mindedness has mainly to do with friendship, transcendence with love of God, obligation with marriages and other long-term erotic relationships, obsession with unrequited love, and insatiability with roaming.
Taken together, the threads here separated by theme form a richly hued tapestry. If it is as yet incomplete, that is as it should be, for the story of love, like love itself, is always in the process of change, re-elaboration, and new fantasy-making.
Notes
1 1. Barbara H. Rosenwein, ed., Anger’s Past: The Social Uses of an Emotion in the Middle Ages (Ithaca, NY, 1998).
2 2. Joanna Bourke, Fear: A Cultural History (Emeryville, CA, 2005); Darrin M. McMahon, Happiness: A History (New York, 2006); Barbara H. Rosenwein, Emotional Communities in the Early Middle Ages (Ithaca, NY, 2006).
3 3. Barbara H. Rosenwein, Generations of Feeling: A History of Emotions, 600–1700 (Cambridge, 2016).
4 4. Barbara H. Rosenwein, Anger: The Conflicted History of an Emotion (London, 2020).
5 5. Arlie Russell Hochschild, Strangers in Their Own Land: Anger and Mourning on the American Right (New York, 2016), pp. 6, 135.
6 6. L. E. Angus and L. S. Greenberg, Working with Narrative in Emotion-Focused Therapy: Changing Stories, Healing Lives (Washington, DC, 2011); Iiro P. Jääskeläinen, Vasily Klucharev, Ksenia Panidi, and Anna N. Shestakova, “Neural Processing of Narratives: From Individual Processing to Viral Propagation,” Frontiers in Human Neuroscience 14 (2020), doi: 10.3389/fnhum.2020.00253; Joan Didion, “The White Album,” in We Tell Ourselves Stories in Order to Live: Collected Nonfiction (New York, 2006), p. 185.
7 7. Maddie Dai, cartoon, The New Yorker (December 16, 2019), p. 37.
8 8. Simon May, Love: A History (New Haven, CT, 2011), p. 2.
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