are some examples of tasks that can be used as forfeits, punishments, or prizes:
Strip your partner of their underwear without using your hands – only your teeth. The task can be made more difficult if you have to do it blindfolded.
Dance a striptease.
Walk around the house naked all day.
Come to your partner’s office and have sex there.
Have sex in… (insert what you like – on a windowsill, in a swimming pool, in the woods, in the car, in a store changing room, etc.)
Masturbate in front of your partner.
Give your partner a massage (using your hands, feet, lips, breasts, a feather, a silk scarf, etc. – a separate forfeit for each).
Make love in a certain pose (here you can create as many forfeits as there are poses).
…and so on.
Creating the right setting
We often feel embarrassed to show initiative in an erotic game. A proper sexy setting helps to remove such barriers and pass onto a completely new stage that will bring you fantastic new emotions. Therefore, don’t forget about the setting and the suitable atmosphere when preparing for the game – it is the key to getting into an erotic mood.
Setting up the room
When working on a romantic and intimate setting for an evening of erotic games, take care to create an atmosphere of warmth and pleasure. Clean soft sheets and flames in the fireplace will help create the necessary ambiance.
For a classic romantic setting, close the windows with heavy curtains, choose subdued lighting, place a new tablecloth and some flowers on the table.
Alternatively, you can go for the style of the 20’s, or a comic book theme, or even a pijama party. Think of your favorite film, game, or book, and use its concept.
Use your creativity and fantasy to transform your bedroom.
Scents
Smells and scents play an important part in creating the atmosphere for a game. Smells can be used to create associations – you can use that to increase your and your partner’s sensitivity during the game.
You can use incense sticks, a lamp with an essential oil, or an incense burner to fill the room with a magical aroma and increase your enjoyment of the game.
You can even make a simple aroma diffuser yourself. Take an ordinary salt shaker, fill it with baking soda about one quarter of the way, and add 10—15 drops of an essential oil. Such a diffuser can spread a pleasant aroma for quite a long time, as long as you don’t forget to shake it from time to time.
Many scents act as aphrodisiacs and can make the game more passionate. Among the most widely used are sandalwood, jasmine, rose, and patchouli. If you would like to use other scents, please refer to the table at the of this section – it lists the effects that various aromas have on the body.
Remember, however, that different scents affect people in a different way: what one finds exciting another may consider nauseating. The same scent can seem exotic to some people and too strong to others. Smell an essential oil before buying – reading the label is not enough.
To enhance the effect, do not limit yourself to just one aroma but rather create combinations of essential oil. You can transform this activity into a game – play chemical scientists in a lab, create your own blend and try its effects. Experiment and create.
Food and drink
Don’t forget about the food and drinks – if you want to spend a long and entertaining evening playing erotic games, you will need something to replenish your energy in between rounds. Aphrodisiac foods will be the best choice – they will not only keep you going but also intensify your passion.
Great ingredients for an aphrodisiac salad are green beans and other legumes, avocado, aubergines, olives, artichokes, cabbage, broccoli, leeks, parsley, tomatoes, beetroots, iceberg salad, and topinambur. As for condiments, use horseradish, mustard, and cumin. Various spices help to improve both the mood and libido: cinnamon, vanilla, nutmeg, ginger, cardamom, marjoram, parsley, celery, dill, fennel, and sesame.
The best aphrodisiacs among fruits are apricots, dates, nectarines, oranges, mangoes, coconuts, bananas, grapefruits, pomegranates, strawberries, lemons, and limes.
You can also prepare tea with such herbs as oregano, mugworts, jasmine, rose petals, mint, chicory, or thyme – they will soothe your thirst and give you energy.
Coffee has an energizing effect not only thanks to its caffeine contents, but also because it stimulates the part of the brain that regulates the functioning of the genitalia. Coffee increases stamina and provides energy. A cup of freshly brewed coffee can greatly enhance the experience of an erotic game.
As for chocolate, nuts, and honey, they can be used not only as aphrodisiacs, but as props in a game. For instance, if you spread some honey over your partner’s erogenous zone, you can double your pleasure.
Bed
You need to have enough sheets and a suitable surface: it can be a wide bed, a mattress on the floor, or even animal skins, if you happen to have some.
Music
You will need to put on some quiet music to create a proper setting. Choose the tracks based on your tastes: if you like rock, put on some rock ballads (heavy rock music is hardly erotic, though), while those who like lighter music may choose some ambient or new age albums.
Clothes
Put on some clean, light, and comfortable underwear that suits the romantic setting of an evening of erotic games with your partner. Prepare your costume if you want to play a role-playing game.
Hygiene and safety
Sex brings joy and pleasure; however, you should not forget about its possible risks. Give some attention to the matters of hygiene and safety of sexual relations.
Things are easier when you have been in a relationship for a while and have had time to study your partner and build trust.
It is more risky when you decide to bring some variety into your sexual experience with a partner you don’t know well or, even more so, by attending a party with a lot of strangers.
First of all, don’t forget about the basic rules of hygiene: bad breath or the smell of sweat can push away a potential partner. Take a shower, shave or do an epilation before going to such a party. Put on fresh underwear and clean clothes.
Remember that a whole series of diseases can be transmitted sexually or orally; a fun party among people you hardly know can result in very unpleasant consequences.
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