shouldn’t neglect your gums.’
Alistair seemed shy and hardworking in his interviews, but quickly revealed himself to be quite the opposite, and we’ve ended up becoming almost-friends – as much as I ever make friends at work, anyway.
Charlotte, on the other hand, who I can see trudging up the hallway now, is, well, dull. Yes, I feel bitchy for saying that about a colleague who’s never done anything bad to me, but honestly, she doesn’t inspire affection. I might be a bit quiet sometimes, but she’s practically a mute. Her hair, skin and clothes are all varying shades of taupe, and she wears ponchos (ponchos!) over her suits in winter and so inevitably, because she isn’t Elle Macpherson-shaped, looks like a mushroom. I’m not the most stylish person in the world, but I know a ‘don’t’ when I see one.
‘Morning, Charlotte,’ I say cheerfully, as she sits down at her desk.
‘Morning . . .’ she says flatly. See? No effort.
A text arrives from my sister, Sophie.
Date. Details. I need to know everything.
I sigh. I wish I hadn’t talked about my first date so much. Now I have to tell them all how terrible it was. Though one bad date doesn’t mean that I’m going to be single forever, right? Or end up with Lonely Single Girl Syndrome, miserable and . . . desperate? (I’m starting to hate that word. The d-word.)
I open a new email to Plum, Henry and Sophie:
I will only discuss this once, so read carefully. It was a disaster. I had total verbal diarrhoea. Read entire menu out loud. Asked in-depth questions about everyone he knows. Told him all about my break-up with Peter. Made stupid comments constantly. He left as soon as he could. No goodnight kiss. And I was pretty hammered.
At about 11 am, the replies arrive. My sister, Sophie, is first:
Oh Abigail. Maybe you should call him to apologise.
Is she out of her fucking mind? There is no way I am ever calling him again, ever. Why line up to get rejected outright? Far better that he just doesn’t call me. Sophie is too sensitive sometimes.
I reply:
I might be a dating virgin. But I’m not an idiot.
Plum replies:
Sounds like you can chalk that one up to fucksperience, sugar-nuts. x
Ah, thank you, Plum.
Henry replies:
I can’t believe you didn’t jump him.
Another useful response.
I field emails all morning, in between phone calls to traders expressing my opinions on what’s happening in the market (very little and very little). Then finally one email, from my ever-perceptive sister Sophie, cuts through all the shit.
Abigail – do you even want to see him again? If not, stop torturing yourself.
I think for a few minutes. I don’t. I didn’t really have a good time. I just feel like, well, since he asked me out, I should really give it my best shot. Try to make it work. Surely if he’s a nice person, and I’m a nice person, there’s no reason we shouldn’t keep going?
This, it occurs to me, is the kind of thinking that kept me in a relationship with Peter for seven years.
God, that’s brutal.
Wait. That was something that Robert had said about dating. I should write it down. I take out my notebook and add ‘Act brutal’ to the list. Fine. I won’t even try to see Paulie again. He is erased from my mind forthwith. How’s that for brutal?
‘Are you up for lunch later?’ says Alistair, shooting across from his desk to mine on his chair.
I frown at him. This is the third time he’s asked me out to lunch in the past fortnight. I’m usually too busy, but today is pretty quiet.
‘Sure,’ I say. ‘Charlotte?’
I don’t know why I’m asking, she never leaves the office at lunch. As expected, Charlotte declines.
‘So, why have you been dying to eat lunch with me?’ I ask, once we’re seated at the sushi bar around the corner, and I’ve done my usual wasabi-soy mixing routine.
‘Can’t a man want to break bread – sorry, raw fish – with his line manager without attracting suspicion?’ says Alistair, copying me.
I glance at him and arch an eyebrow.
‘I don’t want to be an analyst anymore,’ he says in return.
I’ve just put a huge piece of maki roll in my mouth so I chew it slowly, whilst nodding and making eye contact, trying to think of what to say next. Halfway through chewing, my tongue discovers a large gob of wasabi that I didn’t stir into the soy sauce properly, and tears immediately spurt from my eyes.
‘You don’t have to cry about it,’ says Alistair.
‘Water,’ I whisper, grabbing the shiny, utterly non-absorbent napkin in front of me and holding it to my cheeks. Darn, now I’ll have streaks through my makeup. ‘Well. That is a big decision. What do you want to do instead?’ I say eventually. I sound like my mum. Again.
‘I want to sit on a trading desk,’ he says firmly.
‘Sheesh, why?’ I exclaim. The trading floor is the Wild West of the office. They’re almost always entirely male, and pungent with the sharp smell of testosterone and competition. Alistair is far too silly and funny to be a trader. And he doesn’t have the killer instinct.
‘Don’t you ever get tired of setting up huge kills and never being part of the bloodshed?’ he replies. Perhaps he does have that instinct.
‘When you put it like that . . . no,’ I say.
‘You love research, huh?’ he says, rolling his eyes. ‘Well, I want more . . . more excitement. And more money.’
‘You can’t just decide to be a trader, you know. You’re only one year out of university.’
‘People do make the jump, though,’ he says insistently.
‘Why don’t I do some research to help you make sure it’s what you want?’
‘Anything you can do to help would be great, lovely Abigail. I’m bored.’
We both go back to dipping and mixing and chewing. I am flushed with pleasure that he called me lovely Abigail. It’s harmless flirting, but hardly anyone has flirted with me, harmlessly or not, in years.
‘You know, I get bored sometimes, too,’ I admit. ‘And I wonder if I’m in the right job. But I think that happens to everyone. I mean, work is work.’
Alistair frowns. ‘Work is life . . . Don’t you want to spend your life doing something you love? What would you do, if you could do anything at all?’
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