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Part I. How Beliefs Shape Everything
These six principles constitute a theory of beliefs: how they come into being, why they are necessary, how they are reinforced over time, and why people cling to their beliefs, even when they are incomplete, obsolete, or invalid. They are beliefs about beliefs.
Principle 1. Beliefs Are Models
Beliefs seem like perfect representations of the world, but, in fact, they are imperfect models for navigating a complex, multidimensional, unknowable reality.
Principle 2. Beliefs Are Created
Beliefs are constructed hierarchically, using theories and judgments, which are based on selected facts and personal, subjective experiences.
Principle 3. Beliefs Create a Shared World
Beliefs are the psychological material we use to co-create a shared world, so we can live, work, and do things together. Changing a shared world requires changing its underlying beliefs.
Principle 4. Beliefs Create Blind Spots
Beliefs are tools for thinking and provide rules for action, but they can also create artificial constraints that blind you to valid possibilities.
Principle 5. Beliefs Defend Themselves
Beliefs are unconsciously defended by a bubble of self-sealing logic, which maintains them even when they are invalid, to protect personal identity and self-worth.
Principle 6. Beliefs Are Tied to Identity
Governing beliefs, which form the basis for other beliefs, are the most difficult to change, because they are tied to personal identity and feelings of self-worth. You can’t change your governing beliefs without changing yourself.
Nine practices to help you minimize reality distortion, envision possibilities, and create positive change.
Practice 1. Assume You Are Not Objective
If you’re part of the system you want to change, you’re part of the problem.
You can’t learn new things without letting go of old things. Stop, look, and listen. Suspend judgment. What’s going on?
If you don’t understand the underlying need, nothing else matters. People will not share their innermost needs unless they feel safe, respected, and accepted for who they are.
Practice 4. Triangulate and Validate
Look at situations from as many points of view as possible. Consider the possibility that seemingly different or contradictory beliefs may be valid. If something doesn’t make sense to you, then you’re missing something.
Practice 5. Ask Questions, Make Connections
Try to understand people’s hopes, dreams, and frustrations. Explore the social system and make connections to create new opportunities.
Many beliefs are embedded in habitual routines that run on autopilot. If a routine is a problem, disrupt the routine to create new possibilities.
Practice 7. Act As If in the Here and Now
You can test beliefs, even if you don’t believe they are true. All you need to do is act as if they are true and see what happens. If you find something that works, do more of it.
Practice 8. Make Sense with Stories
If you give people facts without a story, they will explain it within their existing belief system. The best way to promote a new or different belief is not with facts, but with a story.
If you can be open about how change affects you personally, you have a better chance of achieving your aims. To change the world, you must be willing to change yourself.
Foreword
It’s necessary if you’ve gotten this far in Dave’s newest book—and I say newest because he is prolific and his energy pervades his passion about thinking and understanding—it is necessary to read his definition of the word liminal, a word that I had never heard before he asked me to do this foreword, but I’m envious and jealous that he thought it up as the name of a book.
In fact, in the off chance that he’s not going to use it in the beginning of his book, I’ll reproduce his definition here as the beginning of my introduction to his many words:
“What is liminal thinking? Liminal is a word that means boundary, doorway, portal. Not this or that, not the old way or the new way, but neither and both. A state of ambiguity or disorientation
