Tuned In
The Power of Pressing Pause and Listening
Tuned In
The Power of Pressing Pause and Listening
Art and Laraine Bennett
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About The Authors
Art Bennett is currently the president and chief executive officer (CEO) of Catholic Charities in the Diocese of Arlington, Virginia. He was also the co-founder and director of the Alpha Omega Clinics in Maryland and Virginia (2002–2010). He has more than thirty years’ experience in the mental health field and is a frequent speaker on marriage and family issues.
Laraine Bennett has a master’s degree in philosophy and is the communications manager for the National Council of Catholic Women.
Together, the Bennetts have co-authored three popular books on temperament (The Temperament God Gave You, The Temperament God Gave Your Spouse, and the Temperament God Gave Your Kids) in addition to their book The Emotions God Gave You. Laraine wrote A Year of Grace: 365 Reflections for Caregivers.
Art and Laraine have been married for forty years.
To Dylan, Micah, and Baby Bennett
Contents
CHAPTER 1 Listening: The Most Important Thing
CHAPTER 3 Listening to Your Heart
CHAPTER 4 Listening to Criticism
CHAPTER 7 Listening to Accompany
Acknowledgments
We are grateful to Pope Francis, who challenges us to bring the good news of God’s mercy beyond our comfort zone, especially to the margins, and to view our Church as a “field hospital.” His emphasis on encounter, listening, and accompaniment inspires us continually. In the words of Saint Catherine of Siena, he is our own “sweet Christ on earth.”
We are grateful to Bert Ghezzi for his friendship and editorial leadership; we wish him happy retirement! And we gratefully acknowledge Mary Beth Baker’s editorial guidance and assistance.
We are especially grateful to our family, whose love fills our hearts with happiness and laughter, giving us a glimpse of that heavenly wedding feast we one day hope to enjoy.
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