Energy Work: Managing Energy and Creating Sacred Space
Rituals for the Road: Making Your Own Talismans, Amulets, Charms
Ritual Resources: Appendix III
By Arin Murphy-Hiscock
People hunger for ritual. As children, we create complex rituals of play and interaction. As adolescents, we engage in awkward social rituals to test and define our identities. As adults, we pass certain milestones such as marriage, first house, and first child, yet these traditional milestones reflect only a small portion of the moments we feel ought to be marked in some fashion
In the twenty-first century, many people feel spiritually adrift as the world moves ever faster. Important events seem to go by, unnoticed and unremarked. You can, however, mark these events when you create your own rituals. You can celebrate the successes, mourn the losses, and shout out the accomplishments. You can design a ritual for family, a community, or just yourself.
Ritual provides a sense of connection and a sense of comfort. It strips away the barriers we raise to shield ourselves in everyday life. Performing a ritual with someone dear to you for the first time is an incredibly moving experience, as I discovered years ago when my husband and I came together to do ritual instead of each of us practicing alone. I recently learned the lesson again when my mother asked us to perform a waxing moon ritual in her backyard when we visited. It was her first nontraditional ritual experience with others, and it was an honor to be there with her as she allowed the beauty and simplicity of the ritual to touch her.
A large part of ritual through the ages has revolved around lowering the defensive barriers we raise and reaching out to one another and to something greater than ourselves. Whether you choose to call that something greater than ourselves God, Goddess, Spirit, Cosmic Light, or the Universe, uniting with that something greater than the sum of its parts is an essential element of ritual. Ritual strengthens our own identity, purifies our energies, and brings us into harmony with the energies flowing through our lives.
As a priestess, I facilitate ritual for others. As a teacher, I teach them how to create their own rituals, lead others in rituals they create, and fully experience them. People who attend my workshops are surprised to learn that when they light a candle in gratitude or supplication to a higher power, they are in fact performing a ritual. Rituals may be complex and dramatic, or they may be as simple as floating a single blossom on the surface of a bowl of water. What matters is your intention as you perform your action. Being aware of your intentions and the meaning behind your practice brings a deeper meaning to your actions. This is what creates ritual it is a way to discover the self, to discover the world around you.
Crafting and performing rituals creates the opportunity to restore balance and harmony in your life. Performing ritual also gives you a method of self-expression and a safety valve for blowing off emotional steam. Designing ritual is a wonderfully creative experience that offers everyone the opportunity to try something different. It is important to remember that rituals are fluid and flexible; this book isn’t one of those books that will tell you what you must or must not do every time you set up a ritual. A personal ritual benefits us the most when it adapts to our current needs. There are times for traditional ritual as well, but the rituals in this book are designed to supplement them, not supplant them.
This book was created for intermediate practitioners. This means certain things have been assumed: that you have read an introductory book on rituals before or have at least some experience with ritual. Cerridwen doesn't spend a lot of time going over the basics. Instead, she emphasizes rites and rituals from several cultures, offers templates to get your mind going, and provides information to help you design your own rituals. You’ll discover that by drawing certain things together—a feather, a candle, a flower—you can create an atmosphere that enhances your mood. Play with color on the altar and in your ritual clothing. Research deities from various mythologies and discover their spheres of influence. Ask for the help of Mother Nature or the spirits of the four elements. The examples in this book provide you with wonderful ideas to experiment with and to serve as a starting point for your own explorations.
These practices are meant to be accessible to people of all faiths and paths who seek to enrich their spiritual practices and add meaning to their lives. You hold in your hands a treasure trove of information gathered from ceremonies throughout history and from all over the world. Let this information inspire you and excite you. Let your imagination take flight. Trust your intuition, go with your instincts, and listen to your heart. By following these three simple guidelines, you will be able to craft beautiful, and more important, meaningful rituals to enrich your life, provide comfort, and maintain harmony and balance in your life.
Welcome to The Witch’s Guide to Ritual.
I once had the pleasure of attending a talk by Huston Smith, a preeminent scholar of the world’s religions who first came to the attention of the world when he brought a young Tibetan Buddhist monk—His Holiness, the Dalai Lama—to America for the first time. Smith spoke about the continuing impact of religion in our world, most notably, the strife in the Middle East over religious differences. He was at his most joyous when he spoke about his own spiritual practices, which he described to us. They were beautiful in their simplicity. Smith said that, upon rising each day, he did Hatha yoga for some minutes, followed by reading a few pages of sacred text, after which he meditated or prayed for at least five minutes. He would finish his morning ritual by doing a bit of yard work and some composting, which resulted in rich, dark soil and a beautiful garden that he greatly enjoys.
The entire audience smiled as they listened to this great and humble man describe the simple spiritual practices with which he began each day. These were Huston Smith’s personal morning rituals. I loved the irony that this premier academic, who has such a deep understanding of all the religious rituals throughout history, had created such an uncomplicated practice for himself. I left the talk inspired and soon felt compelled to write a book of rituals that add meaning into our lives.
Whether people are conscious of it or not, our lives are centered upon ritual. The Wednesday night pizza and movie with the kids is a family ritual. It could be greatly enriched by adding a spiritual aspect—perhaps children could share the highlight of their week so far, and photos or memories could be added to a family album to be treasured for generations to come. The Saturday night date is a romantic ritual, knitting
