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© 2012 by Nevaeh Michael
ISBN 9781456611897
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Contents
Introduction
How Marriages Can Crumble
His Stomach vs. His Brain
Why Other Women Succeed
The Shouldn’t and the Should
The Pointers:
The Arrogant:
The Heavily Guarded:
The Rejecters:
Become the Good Woman
Learn How to Get What You Want
Negative Communicators:
Positive Communicators:
Melt Your Man’s Heart
Conclusion
Introduction
There’s a common script that most women tend to play out in their mind weeks before their wedding date. It’s the typical happily ever after scene when your prince charming would hold you in his arms and carry you out the door for your family and friends to see.
Within that moment, you feel as if you are at the peak of your happiness. It’s a blissful day for you. You’re laughing and enjoying the company of the people around you.
You have nothing to complain about and your happiness is just beginning. Then, once the party ends, you drive away to live your Happily Ever After with the man that you love, hoping that the happiness will last forever.
Unfortunately, marriage doesn’t play out that way. Like life, you will have your ups and downs with your husband. You’ll fight and argue just like any couple and in the worst case scenario, the both of you will lose interest with each other over time.
It’s a common process and there’s no way of stopping it. However, there’s a way to prevent it from happening all the time. The more you disagree and argue as a couple, the sooner you can grow tired with each other.
The longer you let your communication die out, the faster you’ll become strangers.
In a relationship, communication is crucial. Without it, you can end up as strangers bonded together through a document, waiting for it to be ripped up so your marriage can be over.
Of course, with today’s society, divorces aren’t as rare as they used to be. Nowadays, it’s actually quite common, which isn’t a very good sign for all future couples out there.
The common saying for love is that love is like a roller coaster. Once you’re strapped onto your seat, you’ll be in for a bumpy ride. You’ll go up and you’ll fall down. You’ll probably face a few loops here and there, but you’ll be enjoying every minute of the ride.
Time will fly by quickly and before you know it, it’s over. Well, a marriage works the same way. The only difference is that you don’t want to get off the ride, but to stay on it for as long as you can. You don’t want anyone else to stop the ride and get on because when that happens, you know that your relationship will be over and it’ll be difficult for you and your partner to get back on the same coaster again.
When you’re married, it’s obvious that you will face some unhappy moments, but you shouldn’t let that come across your relationship. It’ll be expected that, after being together for so long, it’ll be difficult to look at your partner’s good side rather the bad.
Your husband is no different. The reason why you are reading this book is because you want to know why your husband was not the same man that walked you down your road of Happily Ever After.
The motivated man that you once knew is now a man that seems as if he’s tired of you. He’s no longer coming on to you as a generous, heart-warming husband that showers you with constant affection.
He hardly asks you about your day. The communication barrier between the both of you is starting to break and he’s beginning to slowly break away from your reach.
Obviously, you don’t want to let go and you don’t want him to go, but you’ve already tried every possible method that you can think of and none of them has seem to work in your favor.
That’s why this book will tell you about what you might be doing wrong and what you should be doing to regain his attention. Your goal is to shift his eyes away from his work and at you.
You want him to completely notice that you are there, not as a wife that he is married to but as a partner that he chose to spend the rest of his life loving. Though it will not be an overnight success that you might have hoped it to be, it will be something that you can work on and know that you are getting the results you want day by day.
You’ll learn why you are stuck in the breaking zone while other women are happily enjoying their marriage. You’ll realize what you were doing wrong and what you can correct.
You’ll be able to know what’s going on in your man’s mind and will be able to better predict his wants and needs. By the end of the book, you’ll realize something changing within you.
How Marriages Can Crumble
Marriages happen when two different people from two different worlds unite into one. That may sound a little cheesy but it’s true.
You and your partner are choosing to marry each other because you love each other. You choose to marry your partner because there is something about him that you can’t find in anyone else that you’ve been with.
The same applies for your partner. He chose to be with you because he is attracted to you. Both of your reasoning is the same, which is why the both of you are together even to this day.
Despite that, even marriages can run into an unexpected wall. It
