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Walk With Me, Jesus
A Widow's Journey
by
Ronda Chervin Ph.D.
with
Heidi Hess Saxton
foreword by
Johnnette S. Benkovic
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This is a derivative work of two books by Ronda Chervin, originally entitled A Widow's Walk (published by Our Sunday Visitor) and Weeping with Jesus.
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For the First Dedicated Widows of the Holy Family:
Magdalena, Doreen, Marilyn, Dolores, Diane, and Marion
FOREWORD
by Johnnette S. Benkovic
A Grief Shared
In April 2007, my daughter and I sought a ten-day respite on a sunny west coast Florida beach. It had been a difficult three years. We both needed time to heal and recuperate, and I knew I needed time to pray: specifically for discernment, wisdom, and guidance.
Earlier that month, my husband of nearly thirty-four years died of a Glioblastoma Multiforme IV brain tumor. Anthony's diagnosis had come just one year after our 25-year-old son had been killed in a vehicular accident soon after returning from serving his country in Iraq. My life had changed remarkably, and widowhood loomed large before me. If I were to meet this new challenge with faith, I knew I needed holy wisdom and guidance. Only in and through God could I find the treasury of grace packaged in the wrappings of my suffering.
Would I discover God's will for me as I made retreat with Him on that sunny shore? This was the question I asked, and its answer was the hope of my heart.
Anthony and I had experienced and witnessed abundant blessings through our crucible of suffering. Though it had been an intensely difficult time, it was a time robust with God's grace. We learned, in stunning ways, that His grace is always sufficient; that He is in the midst of all things; that His perfect plan is worked out in inexplicable and yet comprehensible ways; that everything He permits can be used to unite us more closely to Him; that Our Blessed Mother holds us in her immaculate heart; and that the Cross, when embraced, becomes a doorway to joy.
These were costly lessons to learn, and lessons I prayed to apply to my new state in life. I took a few prayer "tools" with me to my beachside retreat: my rosary, my Bible, the Divine Office, a copy of Divine Intimacy by Father Gabriel of St. Mary Magdalene, and writings on widowhood written by Ronda Chervin. As one day turned into another, I began to hear the voice of God speaking to me through these resources, offering me encouragement and insight, direction and hope.
I was especially edified by Ronda's writings. A widow herself, Ronda candidly shared her own struggle with widowhood and the challenges it presents. She told the stories of several holy women who became icons of triumph to me: St. Elizabeth Seton, Blessed Conchita, St. Jane de Chantal, Praxedes Fernandez, St. Rita of Cassia, and others. Some of these saintly women had immediate and pressing challenges to face - financial ruin, irascible relatives, small children to provide for, bitter and nearly inconsolable grief, the aftermath of painful and unhappy marriages, unusual circumstances and situations.
But each of them had learned a great lesson, a heavenly secret, a pearl of great price: they discovered how to make widowhood a pilgrim way to God, a path leading to sanctity
