Professor Dewey tells us that character is largely dependent on the mode of assembling its parts. A teacher may have a splendid native inheritance, a fine education, and may move in the best social circles, and yet not come to his best in personality. It requires some high and exalted task in order to assemble the powers and organize them to their full efficiency. The urge of a great work is needed to make potential ability actual. Paul did not become the giant of his latter years until he took upon himself the great task of carrying the gospel to the Gentiles.
Our own responsibility.—It follows then that the building of our personalities is largely in our own hands. True, the influence of heredity is not to be overlooked. It is easier for some to develop attractive, compelling qualities than for others. The raw material of our nature comes with us; is what heredity decrees. But the finished product bears the stamp of our training and development. Fate or destiny never takes the reins from our hands. We are free to shape ourselves largely as we will.
Our inner life will daily grow by what it feeds upon. This is the great secret of personality-building. What to-day we build into thought and action to-morrow becomes character and personality. Let us cultivate our interests, think high thoughts, and give ourselves to worthy deeds, and these have soon become a life habit. Let our hearts go out in helpfulness to those about us, and sympathy for human kind becomes a compelling motive in our lives before we are aware. Let us consciously listen to the still small voice speaking to the soul, and we will find our souls expanding to meet the Infinite.
The secret.—He who would develop his personality into the full measure of its strength and power must, then, set his goal at living constantly in the presence of the BEST. This will include the best in thought and memory and anticipation. It will permit none but cheerful moods, nor allow us to dwell with bitterness upon petty wrongs and grievances. It will control the tongue, and check the unkind word or needless criticism. It will cause us to seek for the strong and beautiful qualities in our friends and associates, and not allow us to point out their faults nor magnify their failings. It will cure us of small jealousies and suppress all spirit of revenge. It will save us from idle worry and fruitless rebellion against such ills as cannot be cured. In short, it will free our lives from the crippling influence of negative moods and critical attitudes. It will teach us to be ruled by our admirations rather than by our aversions.
Above all, he who would build a personality fitted to serve as the teacher of the child in his religion must constantly live in the presence of the best he can attain in God. There is no substitute for this. No fullness of intellectual power and grasp, no richness of knowledge gleaned, and no degree of skill in instruction can take the place of a vibrant, immediate, Spirit-filled consciousness of God in the heart. For religion is life, and the best definition of religion we can present to the child is the example and warmth of a life inspired and vivified by contact with the Source of all spiritual being. The authority of the teacher should rest on his own religious experience, rather than on the spiritual experience of others.
A character chart.—There is no possibility, of course, of making a list of all the qualities that enter into our personalities. Nor would it be possible to trace all the multiform ways in which these qualities may combine in our characters. It is worth while, however, to consider a few of the outstanding traits which take first place in determining our strength or weakness, and especially such as will respond most readily to conscious training and cultivation. Such a list follows. Each quality may serve as a goal both for our own development and for the training of our pupils.
| Positive Qalities | Negative Qualities | |
| 1 | Open-minded, inquiring, broad | Narrow, dogmatic, not hungry for truth |
| 2 | Accurate, thorough, discerning | Indefinite, superficial, lazy |
| 3 | Judicious, balanced, fair | Prejudiced, led by likes and dislikes |
| 4 | Original, independent, resourceful | Dependent, imitative, subservient |
| 5 | Decisive, possessing convictions | Uncertain, wavering, undecided |
| 6 | Cheerful, joyous, optimistic | Gloomy, morose, pessimistic, bitter |
| 7 | Amiable, friendly, agreeable | Repellent, unsociable, disagreeable |
| 8 | Democratic, broadly sympathetic | Snobbish, self-centered, exclusive |
| 9 | Tolerant, sense of humor, generous | Opinionated, dogmatic, intolerant |
| 10 | Kind, courteous, tactful | Cruel, rude, untactful |
| 11 | Tractable, cooperative, teachable | Stubborn, not able to work with others |
| 12 | Loyal, honorable, dependable | Disloyal, uncertain dependability |
| 13 | Executive, forceful, vigorous | Uncertain, weak, not capable |
| 14 | High ideals, worthy, exalted | Low standards, base, contemptible |
| 15 | Modest, self-effacing | Egotistical, vain, autocratic |
| 16 | Courageous, daring, firm | Overcautious, weak, vacillating |
| 17 | Honest, truthful, frank, sincere | Low standards of honor and truth |
| 18 | Patient, calm, equable | Irritable, excitable, moody |
| 19 | Generous, open-hearted, forgiving | Stingy, selfish, resentful |
| 20 | Responsive, congenial | Cold, repulsive, uninviting |
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