Positive Psychology. Hans Henrik Knoop

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ORDER

       FREEDOM TO GROW

       DYNAMIC ORDER IN THE BODY

       A MENTAL MAP

       LEARN, AND FIND PEACE

       WELLBEING REQUIRES 3:1

       ENGAGEMENT AND FLOW

       EXPERIENCING FLOW

       FLOW AS AN IDEAL CONDITION

       FLOW AS OPTIMAL ENGAGEMENT

       FLOW IN PLAY

       GOOD COMMUNITIES

       GRATITUDE AND REAL HEROES

       FOCUS ON WHAT IS IMPORTANT

       FEELING AT HOME IN THE WORLD

       LIFE AS A QUEST

       BELIEF IN SUCCESS

       FEEL GOOD AND DO WELL

       FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS

       FOR A FREELY ACCESSIBLE PSYCHOLOGY

       WITHOUT HIDDEN AGENDAS

       NOT THAT

      POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY

      USEABLE KNOWLEDGE

      What on earth can we do with a concept called “positive psychology”? Should the rest of psychology be labelled negative then? And who gets to judge what counts as positive? Is it positive to smile at your boss if you disagree profoundly with her decisions? Does being positive mean going against our better judgment? Is it positive to motivate staff to work harder if they are already doing their best? We know the questions; they arise whenever positive psychology is discussed. And they are important because the idea of positive psychology can be stifling – and knowledge can be abused.

      However, the fact that knowledge can be abused is not a good argument for rejecting it – as all things being equal there is a greater chance of getting into trouble if we do not know what is going on. For example, if we do not know that psychologically we are more inclined to feel bad than good, we obviously risk feeling extraordinarily bad. Or at least worse than we would otherwise.

Knowledge opens opportunities for us and positive psychology does not claim to be anything more than useable knowledge.

      A (NEW) PSYCHOLOGICAL FIELD

      In 1954, psychologist Abraham Maslow, father of the “hierarchy of needs”, published his seminal book Motivation and Personality. The concluding chapter, “Toward a Positive Psychology”, argues that psychology, which had previously been based largely on animal testing and studies of mental disorders, should focus much more on the aspects of human existence that make life worth living. At the turn of the millennium, psychology had moved in this direction, through the establishment of so-called humanistic psychology. Many leading psychologists still thought that it was inadequate, however. In 1998, psychologist Martin Seligman, newly elected chairman of the American Psychological Association, decided with his colleague Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi to continue Maslow’s project. The initiative received broad support and after extensive intercollegial discussions it was named “positive psychology”.

      Since then, positive psychology as a research field has expanded steadily. It has its own scientific journals, networks and associations, and involves scientists and practitioners all over the world. Positive psychology is now defined by the International Positive Psychology Association as the scientific study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals and communities to thrive. This booklet provides a broad introduction to the subject.

      THE STRUGGLE TO LIVE

      What does it mean to thrive? Let us start by looking at what is perhaps the most fundamental aspect of life: activity. Like all other living organisms, we are driven from birth by a deep, pervasive impulse to be active, to fight to remain alive, to learn and understand as much as possible, as fast and easily as possible. Our ultimate goal is to control our own situations and destinies to the best of our abilities, instead of wasting away as helpless victims and slaves to the will of others.

      

We know instinctively that activity is life-affirming and inactivity the opposite. Boredom is a good example of this instinct; the fear of being trapped is another. Parents worry that lack of confidence will impede their children’s development. A child who never really experiences success at school can become so pessimistic that its negative outlook becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, while a child who does not make friends may wind up completely socially stuck. Parents struggle, therefore, to ensure that their children experience success and are not socially excluded. Deep down, we all know that it is not just “idleness” but inactivity in general that is the root of all evil, and it is therefore evil to force people to be inactive. We obviously have to discipline ourselves, but we must learn to do this actively by understanding why we have to conform – as children, parents, colleagues, or citizens. Otherwise, we become dysfunctional.

      LEARNED APATHY

      Yet, many of us are almost indoctrinated to forget how important activity is, and led into ways of thinking that are blatantly self-destructive, for example that we simply must “learn to be bored” (inactively). Without further explanation (meaningless). Such indoctrination even occurs in educational contexts where we need inspiration more than anywhere else. This happens even though every child is born with a desire for learning

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