cannot handle what is being said to and about them. Such as, the young lady who told her boyfriend to kill himself. Or a girl killing herself because someone said she was ugly. Sticks and stones does break your bones. But, words does too. Some people hyper-ventilate from what is being said to them. Someone can be sad and from you saying hello can lift them up. It is better to build someone up, then to have their blood on our hands from them hurting others or themselves from what we said them.
A jealous hearted person is a HATER! Haters cannot hide their jealousy. If what we say and feel about a person is negative because of what they have materially and financially then we are a HATER! Haters come in all shapes, sizes and colors. Looking good, having money and material things reveals who the haters are. Some people will hate on your relationship and become competitive or try to tear it apart. Some people hate that you are happy and will try their best to destroy your happiness. Haters can be doing their own thing and still hate on the next man. Haters will count your money and pimples on your face. They will discuss with others what you spend money on. What problems they see you having and not. What a person does with their money and have materially is none of anyone’s business. No one knows if God blessed that person with the money and material things they have. So, why hate on someone? Hate is kinfolks to jealousy and envy. Many people have been murdered, incarcerated and kidnapped because someone was jealous of them. The way a person feel spiritually can make people hate on them. Haters attack people who are spiritually happy serving Jesus. Haters main focus should be on saving their soul. They need to hate on evil. It will keep them busy and from Hell. Jealous hearted people should put their concerns on building their own. Instead of being uneasy about the people who do have their own. There is no reason we should hate and be jealous of anyone. We cannot take these material things with us when we die.
(Proverbs 4:24 Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.)
(Proverbs 16:3 Commit thy works unto the Lord, and thy thoughts shall be established.)
(Matthew 10:33 But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.)
(Ephesians 4:15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:)
(Ephesians 4:17 This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind,)
(Ephesians 4:18 Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:)
(Philippians 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before.)
(1 Corinthians 15:33 Be not deceive: evil communication corrupt good manners.)
(Proverbs 10:12 Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.)
(1 Peter 1:14 As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance.)
(1 Peter 1:15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation.)
(1 Peter 2:11 Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul;)
(Isaiah 26:3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusted in thee.)
(Proverbs 2:9 Speak not in the ears of a fool for he will despise the wisdom of thy word. )
(Proverbs 24:9 The thought of foolishness is sin; and the scorner is an abomination to men. )
(Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver. )
(Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger. )
(Proverb 10:11 The mouth of a righteous man is a well of life; but violence covereth the mouth of the wicked. )
Everyone have mood swings. It would be nice for people to stay in one mood at all times. If we are going to be nice or an ass hole, be it at all times, not when we feel like it. If we are nice and an ass hole at the same time we are being Lukewarm. A lot of us do not realize we are hot and cold in many things. Mood swings are the cause of arguments and breakups. Someone in the relationship is always in a bad mood and never like being bothered. Some people with mood swings cannot be trusted. We will never know if they will become abusive or not. If everyone have mood swings this mean everyone is bipolar and should take medicine. But, everyone is not bipolar and need to take medicine. Most people mood changes after a while. They do not stay the same mood all day unless their is a problem with their spirit. People who are happy then sad every other day emotional equilibrium is off. Women who are going through hormonal changes emotional equilibrium is off. But, there is something wrong with someone’s spirit who is angry, vindictive and argumentative everyday. Some people do not know they are carrying many different spirits around with them. Some people may have the spirits of hate, anger, jealousy and depression all on the inside of them. These people have a spiritual warfare going on. They need Jesus not medicine. All medicine does is keep those spirits within us fed. When we wake up, we set our mood for the day and sometimes we allow people to set our mood. Being moody means you are of confusion and like entertaining those evil spirits. Everyone have the power to keep their mood (emotions) under control. So, being moody is unacceptable. It is a choice people make to be. Claiming to be bipolar is an excuse some people give to purposely act out. To balance our mood swings, we have to balance our manner of living. The way we think and speak has to be on one accord to have internal calm. There are no moody people in Heaven.
We cannot make plans to do nothing. All planned out things does not go the way we want them. As well, no one knows if they are going to see the next day. We have to consult with God first before making any plans. He has the plan for our life. We cannot blame God for our plans not working out. We cannot boast about tomorrow. Tomorrow may come, but we may not be here to see it. We are not to worry ourselves with what we are going to wear and eat. God provides for us and once we realize that our life will be less complicated. There are people who boast about the things they have, use to have and never had. Which is not good. The things people have is by grace and mercy. The things people use to have is in the past. People who say they have, but never had it, are like a bird without wings. When we boast, we open up the door for jealousy from others. In some people mind you are bragging. Some people do not like to hear about what another person has or use to have. Sometimes when we boast about what we have people will plot to rob from us. Do not brag, make plans and worry about what you are going to eat for tomorrow. Tomorrow does not always cater to our needs. We need to deal with today. Tomorrow will have problems of its own.
It is not what goes into our mouth that defiles us. It is what comes out our mouth that defiles our whole body. Speaking all kinds of manure would be the reason we see Hell. What comes out of our mouth is profanity, lies and blasphemy. How can good work in some people’s life when they speak evil about themselves and others? We will only do and say how we truly feel from our heart. If you say and do evil, then evil is in your heart. We have to watch what we say around and to our children. There is no oops I am sorry, I said that or I did not mean what I said, I was angry. We can live our lives apologizing and regretting what we said, but we can never take it back. What we say can be forgiven, but most things people say can never be forgotten. Our tongue is poisonous and like fire. Some of the things people say to an enemy, they say to the one they love. The Angels in Heaven writes down everything we say from good to bad. We do not want to have any accusations against
