Life goes by in a blur. We need to stop the navel‐gazing and go make things happen.
I can remember teachers at school telling me to get my head out of the clouds. I think children should be encouraged to get their heads back in the clouds. Teenagers need to get their heads back in the clouds too, I need to get my head back in the clouds and the chances are you need to get your head back in the clouds. And start dreaming again. Like, proper dreaming, not sleep dreams. Actual proper big dreams that excite you and get your heart racing. The kind of thing that gets you out of bed with an extra spring in your step.
The problem most of us have in achieving our dreams is our thinking. Our thinking helps us to quit, to not try. We've all felt it.
But it's our thinking, and only our thinking, that will help us to succeed.
So, what about you? Did you wake up this morning feeling THIIIIIS much excited?
How often do you wake up on a Monday morning pumped, buzzing and raring to go? Are you waking up every single day energized, happy, driven and oozing passion?
I'm not talking about some days or most days, I mean EVERY SINGLE DAY! If your answer is ‘No’ then there's a word for people like you: normal. It's absolutely normal. It's normal to not wake up every day genuinely pumped full of energy, buzzing, raring to go. When you go to school it's normal too. And when you start working, it's normal there as well. It's normal for a school to NOT have all their young people waking up every morning fit to burst with excitement at the prospect of Pythagoras’ Theorem. If you skip into school ‘oozing with passion’, someone's going to be making you a doctor's appointment.
Think about this for a moment. It's normal. You're normal. It is now the norm to NOT have people waking up energized, buzzing and raring to go to school or work. To go do the things they have chosen to do, every single day. I'm going to say it once more. It's normal. And it doesn't sit well with me.
Question: Do you want ‘normal’?
I'm willing to put money on it that every single one of you reading this book absolutely categorically do NOT want normal. I'm willing to wager that you are in fact looking for, working for, hoping for, striving for, dreaming about something absolutely extraordinary. Something exciting, engaging, purposeful, colourful – even a little bit scary? Something that makes a difference. Something that makes you feel THIIIIIS much excited. And that dear reader, makes you not normal.
Question: Are you putting in the effort to achieve it?
Can you imagine what would happen if you woke up every single day with the same fire in your belly for the day ahead that you had when you were 4? It would be extraordinary. Abnormal even. But can you imagine what you'd achieve? And how you'd feel? And the impact you'd have on the normal? It's a mix of frightening and enlightening, but in the most beautiful way you could ever imagine. Moreover, it's a mindset. A choice. And it costs nothing.
“I tried to be normal once.
Worst two minutes of my life.”
—Anon
Ready Salted
Let me share with you my favourite quote of all time. We all love a good motivational quote. Everyone does. It's incredible how powerful a few positive words can be. There's a lot of quotes in this book, all quite different from the norm, but you've probably started to work out that neither this book or I for that matter are particularly normal.
And for the record, I'm very comfortable with not being normal. I wasn't for a very long time. I reckon my ‘2,555 days of WTAF’ consisted mainly of desperately trying to fit in and yet somewhat confusingly trying to determine how to stand out.
My conclusion?
Normal is boring.
Anyway, back to my quote!
This quote is by none other than Macauley Culkin. I'm pretty sure you'll know who Macauley is; if you don't, he was the wee boy in the Home Alone movies. Well, he was in the first two. I'm not sure if you even know that there are other Home Alone movies? Probably best to just stick with the first two….
So yeah, we're starting a book for teenagers with Kevin. Kevin McAllister to be exact. The cute, cheeky and street‐savvy 8‐year‐old that lit up our lives with booby‐traps, mischief and a lovely cheese pizza just for him. Apparently – according to his cousin – ‘he's what the French call les incompetents’.
Now, whether you are a fan of the Home Alone franchise or not, it's fair to say Kevin was anything but incompetent. He took us all on a journey, an exciting adventure that ultimately reminded us of the importance of love, bravery, family and making the most of what we have. Oh, and not relying on technology, particularly to wake us up before a flight!
The quote goes as follows:
‘I’ve yet to find a level of enthusiasm that tops
“Holy shit look at this giant potato chip!”’
—Macaulay Culkin
I love it.
Why?
Because it's true.
It doesn't matter what age you are, where you're from or what type of upbringing you've had. If you are sitting eating a bag of crisps and you pull from it a giant piece of fried potato, it makes your day! It puts a great big smile on your face. But not just yours!
Because, in that moment you turn to everyone else in the room and show it off. And you put a great big smile on their faces too. I'm not sure if you've ever realised this, but whenever you find any massive item of food, you always use your face as a comparative measuring tool.
‘LOOK MUM, IT'S THE SIZE OF MY FACE!’
And of course, if there's no one else in the room, what do we do? Yup, we reach for our phones, take a quick pic and its on Snapchat, Tik Tok, Twitter, WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram and whatever else there is these days for the whole world to see.
I guess I love the idea of being able to reach into an entirely normal moment, an everyday situation, and pull from it something that puts a smile on your face, lifts you, excites you or makes you laugh. But so much so you need to share it with others.
And that's my challenge to you with this book. Treat it as your very own big metaphorical bag of crisps and reach in. Pull from it something. Something is always a good starting point. It might not
