is a big problem when sales professionals are consumed by fear. A powerful coaching tool to help them rise above these disruptive emotions and make objective decisions about how to approach strategic accounts for price increases is the murder boarding exercise.
Murder boarding helps reduce fear, increase awareness, and develop emotional control by poking holes in those fears, objectively assessing risk, exposing blind spots, bringing delusion to the surface, and playing out worse-case scenarios.
Murder boarding sessions should be facilitated by you and conducted as a team. During the exercise, you will lead a discussion in which the team explores and strategizes each potential price increase scenario and outcome – including losing the account to a competitor.
This should not be a broad 30,000-foot conversation. Instead, it is a deep dive into the minutia that could potentially kill the price increase. Nothing is sacred. Every relationship gap, potential unknown, competitor, quality issue, product weakness, and service deficiency should be treated as a villain.
By leveraging the perspectives and opinions of other team members, you help your seller get real about the price increase opportunity and develop a stronger, more strategic plan. Along the way, the team gets stronger and more aware because they learn from each other.
Most importantly, it gives your account managers confidence as they meet with their largest accounts, which ultimately results in better price increase outcomes.
Know Your Emotional Triggers
Some emotional triggers, like getting cut off in traffic or being confronted by a rude person, occur without your consent. Others, like allowing yourself to walk into a price increase conversation when you are tired, hungry, or unprepared and feeling insecure, are self-inflicted.
In some situations, disruptive emotions are triggered by the way certain people communicate, specific words, or the particular circumstance. Professional buyers, for example, usually know how to push your buttons and create frustration, anger, fear, attachment, and insecurity. They know how to make you feel guilty about the price increase, pull your worst fears to the surface, and thwart your price increase efforts.
Practice dealing with these emotional triggers. Become aware of both your physiological and emotional responses before and at the point of the trigger – especially how the fight-or-flight response impacts your ability to think on your feet.
When you are aware of the specific emotional triggers that derail you and how and where they happen, it becomes much easier to avoid, plan for, anticipate, or respond to them appropriately, making you stronger and more resilient. With this awareness, you will master the ability to consciously rise above the emotion, maintain relaxed, assertive confidence, choose your response, and accomplish your objective.
Leverage Positive Visualization and Self-Talk
You've learned that your brain is hardwired to anticipate and dwell on worst-case scenarios. When you face an emotionally unpleasant task, it is human nature to begin fabricating negative outcomes. This is why the greatest failures in price increase conversations are most often self-inflicted.
There is an endless and ongoing stream of chatter inside your head, shaping your emotions and outward actions. The conversation you are having with yourself will either lead to a confident mindset or lead to self-doubt and insecurity.
For instance, Abby expects to encounter resistance when she presents her customer with a price increase. This negative visualization causes her to worry, and brings her worst fears to the surface.
As she approaches the conversation, worried that her customer will quit and go to a competitor, fight or flight begins to kick in. In this state she stumbles over her words and comes off sounding insecure.
The customer pushes back hard bringing up several old service issues that happened over a year ago. Abby is shaken, embarrassed, and unable to counter her customer's argument and defend the price increase.
Had Abby approached the conversation with confidence, her demeanor alone would have reduced resistance and generated a more positive outcome. It is for this reason that elite athletes and elite salespeople employ visualization to preprogram the subconscious brain. When you visualize success, you teach your mind to act in a way that is congruent with actualizing that success.
Unlike emotions that are activated without your consent, self-talk and positive visualization are completely within your control. You make the choice to think positively or negatively. To pick yourself up or tear yourself down. To see a glass half-full or half-empty.
Before going into a price increase conversation, sit quietly and listen to your self-talk. Then resolve to change those words and what you see in your mind to support how you want to act, how you want to feel, and the outcome you desire.
In your mind's eye, go step-by-step through each part of the conversation with your customer and every potential scenario. Focus on how it feels to be confident. Imagine what you will say and what you will ask. Visualize yourself succeeding. Repeat this process again and again until you've trained your mind to manage the disruptive emotions that derail you.
Preparation calms the mind and builds confidence. You'll find that when you take the time to visualize success and practice, the actual price increase conversation seems much easier than what you worried about. Your mind is prepared to anticipate disruptive emotions, rise above them, secure the price increase, and protect your customer relationship.
Exercise 5.1 Visualize Success
Take a moment to reflect on an upcoming price increase conversation that is causing you concern or worry.
Account Name:
Key Stakeholders:
Situation Narrative: How much is the price increase? How is it being applied? Why now? Why do you need the price increase?
What are your specific fears and worries about approaching your customer with the price increase? Listen to your self-talk; what are you telling yourself about what could go wrong?
Think through the unique situation and practice visualizing a positive outcome. Begin by focusing on your breathing. Slow it down.
Then in your mind's eye, go step-by-step through each part of the conversation.
Focus on how it feels to be confident. Imagine what you will say, what you will ask. Visualize yourself succeeding.
Repeat this process again and again with different conversation scenarios until you've trained your mind to rise above your fears and feel that you can approach the conversation with relaxed, assertive confidence.
Part One Wrap-Up: Reflections
Before moving to the next lesson take a moment to reflect on what you have learned and answer these questions:
1 What are your biggest fears about selling price increases to customers?
2 What do you feel holds you back from effectively following through on price increase conversations with clients?
