it continued I assumed them to be a good omen but since the first episode involved death, I could find no one or any material to give me the answer. Perhaps that was what brought me to Monaco. No plans were made to end up there; I just happened to like it when I rented a car in Marseille and drove up and down the coastline. Determined to complete a book I started, I wanted to find a place to stay for a while. “Sex, God and You” was the title. Today it is still filed away unfinished. No matter what I have done in my life, the basic goal was to bring more enlightenment into our individualized spirituality.
What was my connection with you? I never worked on a picture with you nor saw you in person before you departed your throne in Hollywood for the one in Monaco. The only connecting I had was that I liked you very much as an actress. Not only did you have beauty but class, dignity and sophistication. I wanted to think of myself and project myself in the same manner. I did not like the copycats of Marylyn Monroe and Jayne Mansfield. On casting calls, I was called in for “the Grace Kelly type” and often compared to you. Even the shop owners in Monaco commented that I looked like you. I was honored and flattered to be compared to you for I felt of all actresses I admired, you and Audrey Hepburn gave the screen more class and dignity than anyone else.
Often I would sit having coffee or a glass of wine, reading a book in the outdoor café near the main gambling Casino in Monte Carlo. A cute yacht captain came up and asked if he could join me. We had a few drinks. He asked if I would like to see the yacht that he was Captain of and invited me to join him there. We walked down to the bay and to the yacht. We had more drinks and talked for hours. We discussed the fact that I had been compared to you in Hollywood as well as in Monaco. He told me you often had beach boy lovers. Who really knows what your life was like in that palace by the sea. It could have been very lonely for you and probably was. Many people regretted that you gave up your career to marry Prince Rainier while others saw you as living the dream of many young women – marrying a prince, living in a place and living happily ever after. Married to a prince with three beautiful children appears to be the perfect fairly tale life, but was it? And what did it cost you, your LIFE? Rumors were that gambling cartels had you killed in an attempt to control Rainier. Was it ever solved as an accident or murder? What if you had not married him? No doubt your career would have been a lasting one and today you would have been the quintessential mature woman carrying yourself with beauty and dignity no matter what age you reached!
I loved Monte Carlo with the bay filled with the most luxurious yachts in the world, the outdoor cafés, the nightly loud speaker music, especially during the Pyrotechnics World Competition, when the music played was from each country whose fireworks were to be displayed that evening. It was a happy jaunt down the hill to the bay. The displays were more than fantastic and unbelievable creations of scenes in the sky, lasting only moments. The streets were always clean, the shops and restaurants were charming. I loved the walk along the beach with the dancing waters fountain. I had never seen gravel or rock beaches before where a straw mat became a necessity. I loved Monte Carlo so much; I assumed I would return every couple of years.
There was a live broadcast of your funeral. I felt grief and shed tears even though we never met. Perhaps we were a part of the same Over Soul; your challenge was by success, me, the antithesis, learning through what appears as failure but forced to grow into the understanding that the wealth we learn and earn inside is eternal wealth that cannot be lost, stolen or taken from us. As I sat there, crying along with your family while watching the middle-of-the-night broadcast, I became aware that you sitting the room with me. No, I could not see you, only an empty chair. In my mind’s eye, I could see you clearly. As the funeral progressed, I thought what a silly imagination. This was impossible, yet, as you began talking to me with the words forming in my head, you seemed angry at first as you watched. You seemed quite comfortable sitting in my den with me. You made fun of Prince Rainier. Now he was shedding tears of grief but in life it was not so; that you had very trying times with him. You told me how devoted you were to your children and how you loved them but now that they had grown up, you had so little influence over them. With all the magnificent things that surrounded you, you felt as though you had little influence or goals. Everything had grown so superficial. You told me you definitely did not want to die but now that you were free, you didn’t mind it at all. You were rather enjoying your newfound freedom. How true any of this is, I cannot know. My dear Grace, whom I encountered only briefly in my mind’s eye or imagination; I just wanted you to know that I was aware of your presence with me. Thank you for representing womanhood so proudly. You were accurately named for you truly graced the world with your beauty and charm. You set a standard for many women in your days on earth. If we are some how a part of the same Over Soul, I hope we both are successfully fulfilling our destinies.
MARRIED ONLY ONCE:
Prince Rainier of Monaco -April 19th, 1956 - September 14th, 1982 (her death)
Children: (3) with Prince Rainer, Princess Caroline (1957), Prince Albert (1958) and Princess Stephanie (1966)
GENERAL INFORMATION:
Grace Kelly’s girlhood was uneventful except for the fact she knew she wanted to become an actress. Her “wealthy” family was actually an immigrant family of bricklayers who had barely a generation of newfound wealth. Grace’s father and brother end up becoming famous on their own as Olympic gold-medal scullers. After high school graduation in 1947, Grace headed for New York City. She worked as a model and made her debut on Broadway in 1949. It didn’t hurt her to have a popular playwright uncle, George Kelly. She attended and graduated from the American Academy of Dramatic Arts, New York. She appeared in early television. After relocating to Hollywood, in 1951 at age 22, she appeared in a small part in her first film, Fourteen Hours. Cool and sophisticated, hers was not an easily accessible beauty; it was a constant struggled to keep from seeming aloof on screen. The following year, with a great stroke of luck, she landed the role of Amy Kane in High Noon 1952, a western starring Gary Cooper and Lloyd Bridges which turned out to be a very successful film. In 1953, Grace appeared in Mogambo (1953) a jungle drama with Clark Gable and Ava Gardner and earned her an Oscar nomination as Best Supporting Actress. It was also one of the best films ever released by MGM. She was swept off her feet by Gable. Grace Kelly co-starred with many of Hollywood’s top leading men: Clark Gable, William Holden, Bing Crosby, Ray Milland, James Stewart, and Cary Grant plus crooners Bing Crosby and Frank Sinatra. She more than held her own, not only with her breathtaking beauty, but with growing confidence as an actress. Rear Window brought her even more accolades. Grace stayed busy in 1954 appearing in five films. After Green Fire, Dial M for Murder, her next film was The Country Girl and would forever be immortalized by winning the Oscar for Best Actress for her portrayal of Georgie Elgin opposite Bing Crosby. Her final film that year was The Bridges at Toko-Ri with Fredric March, William Holden, and Mickey Rooney. In 1955, Grace was once again teamed up with Hitchcock in To Catch a Thief co-starring Cary Grant. It was being shot on the French Riviera. Grace loved working there. In 1955, she received a call that the French government wanted her to attend the Cannes Film Festival that May. The “The Country Girl” would be shown at the festival. She met Prince Ranier Grimaldi during the Cannes Festival. He needed a wife, because with no heir to the throne after his death, Monaco would again be part of France and its citizens would have to pay French taxes. She had accomplished so much in a few short years that she thought it was time for her to select a husband, one who would finally meet with her parents’ approval. Ironically, in The Swan she played a young woman betrothed to a prince! In 1956, along with Frank Sinatra and Bing Crosby she played Tracy Lord in the musical comedy High Society. The film was well received. It was her final acting performance.
Part of Prince Ranier’s attraction to marrying a movie star was to increase tourism in his tiny, cash-poor principality. The Kelly family was not happy by his demands that a substantial dowry accompany Grace to Monaco. A figure of $2,000,000 was finally agreed upon, which had to be taken from her future inheritance so that her brother and two sisters wouldn’t be shortchanged. Grace’s wedding gown was the most expensive garment that MGM designer Helen Rose had ever made.
