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14 14 Personal conversation, October 2002.
15 15 Gerstner, Louis V. Jr. 2002. Who Says Elephants Can’t Dance? Inside IBM’s Historic Turnaround . New York: Harper Business.
16 16 Ibid.
17 17 “Masters of scale with Reid Hoffman.” Retrieved from https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/stitcher/masters‐of‐scale/e/53503384.
18 18 Pink, Daniel . 2009. Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us . New York: Riverhead Books.
19 19 Lakoff, George . 2014. Don’t Think of an Elephant: Know Your Values and Frame the Debate . White River Junction, VT: Chelsea Green Publishing.
20 20 Johnson, Spencer and Wilson, Larry . 2002. The One Minute Sales Person . New York: William Morrow.
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25 25 Ibid.
26 26 “How Jeff Bezos leads.” Retrieved from https://www.axios.com/jeff‐bezos‐amazon‐leadership‐seven‐essentials‐3c627861‐b3ed‐4335‐baae‐b8a768b24cc2.html.
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5 Emotional Intelligence
Charles Warner
Old‐Fashioned Models of Selling
Old Models Don’t Work In the Digital Era
The Current Model: Selling as Educating
The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
In 1957, I got my first sales job at WSPA‐TV, the CBS affiliate in Spartanburg, SC. My first sale was to Mr. Parrott of Parrott’s Florist. The owner of WSPA‐TV, Walter Brown, knew Mr. Parrot and bought flowers from him weekly for his home and for the station. Mr. Brown sent me to see Mr. Parrott because a CBS program, “See It Now” with Edward R. Morrow was sponsored on the network by Florist Telegraph Delivery (FTD). Because of the two men’s relationship I got an order for a 20‐second commercial that ran before the network program. When he gave me the order, Mr. Parrott said he’d “try it once,” but when I returned to see Mr. Parrott the next day after his commercial ran and asked him if he would like to renew for another 13 weeks, he said, “No. I didn’t get any results. No one called.”
When I retuned downhearted to the station, my general sales manager asked, “How did it go? Did you close him?”
“No. He said he didn’t get any results,” I replied sheepishly.
“That’s a common objection,” replied my sales manager. “You should have asked him a bunch of questions that led him to the answer you wanted him to give you and then sold him sizzle!”
“Sizzle?”
“Yeah, you know, ‘sell the sizzle, not the steak!”’ My sales manager always spoke in exclamation points. It was his way of showing that he was enthusiastic.
“Enthusiasm, enthusiasm! Enthusiasm is what gets orders! Always sell the sizzle!” He might as well have said, “Sell him magic!” for all I knew. And with that, he reached back to his small bookshelf, took out a book, and handed it to me. “Read this!”, said my sales manager, “it’s by Elmer Wheeler and it’s called Sizzlemanship! It’s the greatest book ever written about selling! Memorize it!”
Old‐Fashioned Models of Selling
In 1957, books on selling, such as Sizzlemanship!, Frank Bettger’s How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling, and Og Mandino’s ode of humility, The Greatest Salesman in the World, preached a model of selling that was developed in the 1920s, 1930s, and 1940s. These books on selling urged the use of techniques and tricks that were relatively successful for products that could be sold in one encounter, that were often low‐cost, and for which people could be badgered into buying, often just to get rid of the salesperson.
These outmoded selling models used simple mnemonics to guide salespeople, such as AIDA, which stood for Attention, Interest, Desire, and Action and ABC, which stood for Always Be Closing and which was made notorious by Alex Baldwin in the David‐ Mamet‐scripted play and movie “Glengarry Glen Ross.” The old‐time sales practitioners urged outrageous, often silly, techniques for getting a prospect’s attention and closing sales. They advocated manipulative techniques such as “sizzlemanship” to get interest and create desire (usually by overselling and overpromising). And they advocated a number of techniques, such as ABC, that pressured prospects to act immediately and which allowed a salesperson to slam down a one‐time sale. While there is nothing necessarily wrong with the AIDA and ABC mnemonics, these old‐fashioned, hard‐sell techniques, which include the “tell‐and‐sell”
