Way of the Champion. Jerry Lynch, Ph.D.

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My athletic and personal life work best when I demonstrate self-acceptance.

      

I write my story then do all that is needed to make it true. My entire life is a mere reflection of the stories I tell myself.

      

I define myself with strong, positive words, describing traits I want to develop; then I do what’s needed daily to make these words become me.

      

My game and life are a reflection of the words and images I choose.

      

Affirmations are self-direction, not self-deception. Inspiration is a personal act. I think of what inspires me and use it.

      

Dedication is the willingness to do all that is necessary to grow and improve as an athlete and person.

      

Once I commit to being a champion, things go my way.

      

Perfection is something to go toward, not achieve.

      

The object is to get as close as I can, and not measure self-worth by outcome.

      

I choose BALANCE, the healthy pursuit of excellence, instead.

      QUESTIONS ON THE QUEST:

      

Having completed all of the questions in the lessons throughout this chapter, you now have a better sense of self. Based on this data, who are you, and where are you going or headed?

      

What three things can you do right now that would bring more balance to your game or life?

      

Why can you be what you want to be?

      

What are the obstacles? What can be done to overcome these?

      

What are you most proud of as an athlete, manager, CEO, parent?

      

What one book, song, or person has inspired you the most, and in what way?

       2. Lessons on Purpose and Vision

      Know your purpose, vision, mission and the message you want to send and how you will send it. Prior analysis brings victory; little or no analysis is foretelling defeat.

      

Sun-Tzu

      WITH A STRONG SENSE of self and knowing who you are, you are now capable of developing a definitive purpose and clear vision for your journey. This purpose and vision for the champion is something much bigger than self or any other individual. In this sense, both are a higher calling to discovering ultimate greatness. Champions have taught us that we can take charge, to influence and control purpose, vision, and mission. In his book, The Art of War, Sun-Tzu reinforces the athletes’ message when he tells us to take control of environments and be sure to evaluate thoroughly the direction you intend to take. Does it give you what you need? Are you getting what you deserve? Are all bases covered? When you make the move, do not burn bridges behind you. Make sure your destination is a safe one.

      In this chapter, you will learn lessons about regrets, mission, raising the bar, winning, detachment, and more. And one thing is absolutely certain: If you are wondering where you are going (purpose and vision), you will never get there. Champions are strongly proactive about the journey; they have purpose and vision.

      PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT

      MY PURPOSE and vision for writing this book begin with a simple mission statement: to guide and mentor you on your journey to being the absolute best you can be in athletics and life, using the lessons learned from champions. Having stated that, my purpose and vision are crystal-clear as I embark upon this project’s path to completion.

      So it is with you, whether you are building a career in sport, building a house, or building a family. Being a champion, you need to begin with a simple, definitive mission statement before you take the first step on your long journey. As an athlete, you might consider, as your mission, to be the best you can be. From here, your purpose is to find out from the experts all the things you need to know and do to make this happen. Then you create the images and vision of yourself accomplishing goals and feeling what it might be like to achieve your full potential. This could be a national championship, an all-American, an age-group winner in your sport, a great parent, or a terrific architect and builder of homes.

      From a simple mission statement, you learn how to plan the work, then work the plan. Schools and universities do this all the time. For example, most institutions of higher learning have as their mission to educate students intellectually, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Knowing this, they can begin to develop a curriculum that will attempt to fulfill the mission.

      For you, be a champion now by zeroing in on your mission in sports and/or life at this point in time. Start by filling in the statement: “In my sport/life, I am on a mission to ______.” The blank is filled in with a specific higher type of goal. For example, you wouldn’t say you are on a mission to win the national championship or write a book. That may be a good vision, but your mission, or specific goal, is to find ways to be the best you can be, like lift weights three times a week or write two pages every day. From this, the championship or book becomes a more plausible reality.

      There’s a fine line between missions, goals, and visions, but try to remember this: A mission statement is an umbrella concept, a simple statement that subsumes numerous goals and tasks. Your mission should help you to formulate goals to identify tasks that, when accomplished, should fulfill the mission. Mission statements are your foundations that help you build castles in the sky. For example, from working with the University of California Santa Cruz men’s soccer program, I know that their mission is to use soccer to guide and foster the physical, emotional, and spiritual development of the players. Although winning games is not the foundational emphasis of his program, the head coach, my friend Paul Holocher, is confident that this approach will produce wins as a natural byproduct of the actualization of the mission. From their mission, they have developed a moral code to live by and a plan to elevate their game of soccer. After only six years, Paul’s team was ranked third in the nation, playing in the NCAA Championship game, in what was supposed to be a rebuilding year. All this was the result of following their strong, meaningful mission statement.

      SENDING YOUR MESSAGE

      ALL ATHLETES, upon entering

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