DEBBIE DANOWSKI
CENTRAL RECOVERY PRESS
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© 2013 by Debbie Danowski
All rights reserved. Published 2013.
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ISBN: 978-1-937612-28-3 (e-book)
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Cover design and interior layout by Heather Kern, Popshop Studio DesignAuthor photo by Patty Wahlers
Excerpts from The Plug in Drug by Marie Winn © 2002, Penguin Books. Used with permission. Excerpt from Addictive Thinking: Understanding Self-Deception 2nd Edition by Abraham J. Twerski. Used with permission.
DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to overweight children everywhere.
May you all find health and happiness in your lives.
To all those who help abused and neglected animals.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Foreword: A Professional View
Amy VanBuren, PhD, Clinical Psychologist and Associate Professor of Psychology, Sacred Heart University
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Chapter One
Society, Food, and Emotional Eating
Chapter Two
Chapter Three
What Food Isn’t
Chapter Four
What Food Is
Chapter Five
Changing the Patterns
Chapter Six
Get Moving!
Chapter Seven
Extremes
Chapter Eight
Looking toward the Future
THE TOPIC OF CHILDREN AND EATING IS important and timely. We live in an age in which childhood obesity rates are soaring while portion sizes in restaurants and fast-food outlets continue to grow, in which more children lead sedentary lives while the media promotes images of “perfect” bodies and faces, in which we receive confusing and often conflicting information about which diet (low-carb, high-fat? high-carb, low-fat? And what about protein?) is “best.” It is hard for parents, let alone children, to even begin to make sense of the confusing and often contradictory messages we get in our society about food.
Eating behavior is the result of a complex interaction of genetics, sociological, and psychological factors. Research is just beginning to tease these apart. But what we do know—and what Dr. Danowski emphasizes in this book—is that eating behavior starts in the family, and that families play a powerful role in shaping children’s eating habits. She understands the emotional stressors that both kids and parents experience in this complex world that often lead to overeating. For many, eating is a way of coping with life, even to the point where they are not able to know the difference between eating for biological reasons or eating for emotional solace.
As a clinical psychologist, psychology professor, and parent, one of my research specialties is emotional intelligence,
