as easy to fall in love with a rich person as with a poor person. In fact, it’s easier.
•He (or she) who hesitates is lost.
•Lost time can’t be found.
•Nothing lasts forever.
•Don’t smoke cigarettes or chew tobacco.
•Write it down.
•The only way to win the game of life is to die while owing lots of money on insured debts.
•People who live in glass houses shouldn’t.
•With computers, if you put garbage in, you get garbage out.
•Buy low and sell high.
•Cave canem.
•Caveat emptor.
•In vino veritas.
•Que sera, sera
Some Advice from Others
Katherine Hepburn:
•“If you obey all the rules you miss all the fun.”
•“If you always do what interests you, at least one person is pleased.”
•If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married.
•“Never complain. Never explain.”
•“Enemies are so stimulating.”
•“Why slap them on the wrist with a feather when you can belt them over the head with a sledgehammer?”
Mark Twain:
My Worst Mistakes
My worst mistakes (so far) involve money. Judging by the huge number of people and books providing financial advice, maybe most of other people’s worst mistakes involve money.
I became 68 years old in the spring of 2014. My wife and I collect several thousand dollars each month from Social Security. When we were younger we assumed that Social Security payments would buy us a second home and nice vacations. SURPRISE! We need the money for basic living expenses. I hear the same thing from many others.
Lesson: It’s tough to predict the future.
We have a big, beautiful house that’s theoretically worth a lot of money. We have lots of equity in the house, but we can’t eat the equity.
Lesson: If you need to buy food it’s much easier to liquidate an IRA than to sell a piece of a house.
My income went up from the early 1970s until around 2007. My wife and I didn’t live like Donald and Mrs. Trump but we could afford to pay nearly $100,000 for a swimming pool and more than $3,000 for a piece of French-made furniture. Today I’d much rather have the $3,000.
Lesson: Before you buy a non-necessity for $3,000 or even $3, think about whether at some time in the future you’d rather have the money.
My wife and I didn’t think we were rich, but we were “comfortable.”
Including non-liquid assets, we were multimillionaires for several years. We could easily afford anything that was important—and many things that were not important.
We bought flat-screen TVs and Blu-ray players before the prices came down. Our dog drinks Poland Spring water. (I am satisfied with filtered water from the fridge.)
On the other hand, we never gambled more than $25 at casinos, didn’t smoke or use recreational drugs or gamble on Wall Street—and spent almost nothing on alcohol, jewelry or vacations. We’ve owned three boats, but they were all inflatables that cost about $15 each.
We put a lot of money into IRAs.
We always tried to buy things on sale and make expensive purchases with a year to pay and no interest. We used credit card points and “miles” to pay for flights, hotel rooms and gifts. We had two timeshares on Cape Cod—bought cheaply from the estates of the previous owners.
We gave to a score of charities each year and helped some less-fortunate relatives.
We had dozens of credit cards with huge credit lines and perfect credit ratings.
In 2005 I turned down an offer of about $4 million for AbleComm, my telecommunications equipment business.
•I was not ready to spend the rest of my life on the beach.
•I liked what I was doing but didn’t want to do the same work for a boss instead of for myself.
•I didn’t know that the Great Recession was on the way.
Before the recession, the telecomm business was so good that my small company had over $100,000 in the bank, paid its bills early to earn discounts and even invested surplus funds overnight.
Then, in 2007, the shit hit the fan. It was called the “Great Recession” but “great” did not mean better than “good.”
Because of general economic malaise, more competition and lower sales prices caused by innovations in technology, my telecommunications business’s sales gradually decreased.
Now, in 2015, it’s increasing, but very slowly, and it’s unlikely to ever reach its previous high. Silver Sands Books, my tiny publishing business, provides me with hundreds of dollars each month—not thousands. I thank you for buying this book.
When the recession officially ended, we got a home equity loan to pay off high-interest credit card bills. We—and many experts—thought that happy days would soon be here again.
We optimistically, naïvely and foolishly agreed to a five-year loan with monthly payments of nearly $5,000 (on top of our first mortgage payments of about $1,800 per month).
In the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy in the fall of 2012, my business had no phone service, email or electrical power for a week. We did no business. I had no income. I asked our “friendly banker” to give us an additional ten days to make the scheduled huge mortgage payment.
Instead of authorization, I was given a bulging packet of forms to fill out for the “loss mitigation department.” There was no loss that needed mitigating. I just needed a relatively small favor from the “helpful, understanding, compassionate and community-minded” bank.
