“liking” each other or being “girlfriend and boyfriend” or “going out.” He’s not ready for romance now, but if he learns
he can trust you, that might change. If it doesn’t, you’ll still have a friend.
Mixed message
I have a boy problem, and I don’t know what to do. He’s really
cute, nice, and unbelievably sweet. Oh, and he’s really funny.
He doesn’t like me like I like him, but he said we should be really
good friends. That’s OK. Just one problem. He doesn’t talk to me
or do anything with me, and sometimes he avoids me.
Boy Prob
When your heart’s saying yes, yes, yes, it can be hard to see that a boy’s
trying to say no, no, no. You have to look at his actions, not just his words.
This boy wants to be nice, friendly, and respectful. But he doesn’t want to
be your boyfriend, and by the sound of it, he doesn’t want to be “really good
friends,” either. If you force yourself on him, he’ll avoid you. If you want to
be friends at all, back off.
Shy guy
My friends and I have a crush on this one boy. We don’t know
who he likes, but he knows who likes him. He’s very shy and
won’t admit who he likes. We’ve asked him many times, and
we’ve told him we like him. What should we do?
Clueless
It could be that this boy is shy. It could be that his hormones haven’t really
kicked in yet, and he feels about girls the way you felt about boys two years
ago: indifferent. In either case, he’s not ready to have a romantic relationship
with you or your friends. To question him again and again will only embarrass
him. For now, cross him off your list.
how to tell him
you like him
You’ve been watching for signs. You think he might like you. You’re ready to
tell him you like him. How do you do it?
Well, some girls will write a note. The problem is that once you put your
words out there on paper—or, worse, in a text or online—you can’t be sure
where they’ll end up. Will this boy be the only one who reads what you’ve
written? Maybe. But your message could just as easily get passed around to
half the kids in school.
You could also get a friend to tell the boy for you. This has its advantages.
If he says he doesn’t like you, you don’t have to melt into a puddle of
embarrassment right at his feet. On the other hand, it’s peculiar when you
think about it. If you like a guy, shouldn’t you be able to talk to him
yourself?
Ten better ways to tell him you like him:
Sit behind him on the bus. Strike up a conversation. If you both
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