Sex & Intimacy 101. K. A. Bareki
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But when the delivery man is too slow to receive and deliver the messages, eish, it takes long to come, and thatâs where the woman gets tired of waiting for his arrival. Guys donât take too long. It makes the whole thing boring. It makes sex to be a project instead of an escapade. Yes thereâs the bladder and if he starts sexing with the bladder full of urine he is going to have a problem coming early. Anyway thatâs for later. Okay take a look at the tip of the penis. Look at how itâs shaped. Why is it shaped that way? Okay itâs not yet time for this coz itâs for later but let me give you a clue:The penis has a shape, which makes it easy to touch the top part of the vagina. Itâs designed such that as the man goes in and out he touches a spot which provokes the female climax. Most men donât know this, and they come and make their spouses to come by happenstance. Thereâs nothing more unfortunate in the bedroom than people who just come by coincidence. Later on I am going to show you how to come and how to make your partner come, but wait, I have to teach you the first step. Thatâs going to be one step at a time,âPrecept upon precept, precept upon precept, Line upon line, line upon line, Here a little, there a little,â (Isaiah 28:13).These things are not to be rushed.
(f)A closer look at Physical differences (Vagina)
A closer look at the vagina also reveals something interesting. You better pay serious attention coz you wonât learn this in church. In fact, should they hear you, they would cast the demon out of you for saying ââvagina.ââ You would have to say something like ââwomanhoodââ and say it discreetly so that you are not heard by holy people. And the irony of it is that often the very people who donât want to hear the word vagina are the ones sexing people behind the scenes and committing all kinds of sordid acts. Yah, you didnât know it?:âthink again.
Anyway, lets go on. You got the vagina picture down there, I donât want to say the reproductive system. Let just say ââvaginaââ or ââpussyââ if thatâs fine with you or whatever.... But know that God will never judge you for labeling an organ the way you want. So, I have just drawn and labeled the vagina and its neighbors on the previous page. Next time you want to do a book, and need illustrations, just try me out. Am not that bad...or am I?I help people publish books for almost nothing. If youâre interested Visit www.ansonpublishing.com go to services, fill the-form below and weâll take it from there. I want you to focus on the clitoris and the pipe like entry, which is actually the vagina. Do you see where the penis goes in? At the end of that tunnel, there is that cervix part. If a guy has a dick long enough to touch that cervix part it is going to hurt. And the pain is unbearable. So while you go about trying to increase penile size just remember, thatâs a no-go-area. And by the way, if the penis is longer than needed thereâs no way of reducing it. I never heard of penis reducing medicine. Increasing the penis is like walking through a rail-way tunnel. If the train doesnât come while you are in that tunnel, then you are simply fortunate. If it does, you are finished. If you increase the penis to a âârightââ length then we can say ââwell done kid.ââ But if itâs the wrong size, you will have to live with consequences of trying to teach God how to make the right penis length. So itâs a ââdo it at your own riskââ, coz whatever bad thing happens, you have yourself to blame. Not even the devil will be held responsible for you doing your thing and having your errors.
At the entrance is the vestibular gland. Thatâs for lubricating the vagina. Itâs at the door. I mean the greater vastibular gland. Take a look at it. It lubricates the entrance. So when you put it in and its painful, donât think it shows that you are the man. You are just hurting Eve, big time. You are breaking them traffic laws. Thatâs a stop sign brother, you are suppose to fondle until the gland releases the fluid and then once the fluid is there and the lips of the vagina have been puffed up, you enter.
We are almost at the end of the chapter, but let me tell you something that I might not have the writing space to say when we go ahead. Men love to be respected and sexed and women love relationships. Men are projectors and women are receptors. Men look at things in general and in summery, women love attention to detail. Yes, women and man are not same. But vaginas and penises are reciprocal. Every manâs penis has to have testicles and a shaft and every womanâs vagina ought to have the vestibular glands and labia majora or manora.There is nothing like this ladyâs sex is nicer than that one. It is you the man, who imagines that woman is nicer than that one. And it feels like that because the mind is conditioned that way. This reminds me of Pavlov, Ivan (Petrovich) (1849â1936), a Russian physiologist. He is best known for his studies on the conditioned reflex. He demonstrated through a dog that salivates at the ring of a bell the concept of mental conditioning. God never gave some people nicer vaginas than others. That would simply be unfair. Yes,there are bigger vaginas, smaller vaginas, but âânicerââ is rather subjective to mental perception and conditioning. There are men who just donât know how to have satisfying sex and then they conclude that itâs because of the other person. They pass on the blame. Perhaps this other person mourns in way that they like and they think eish, this oneâs sex is juicier. There is nothing like that. Not when it comes to sex, and as a man if you are good at doing it, with your partner, it should be nice, no matter who your partner is. You might say you prefer fat women, but remember that fat is just fat. If you are dating a fat woman she might just lose weight and become thin. Are you going to leave her and look for someone fat? If you like thin girls and your slim girl gains weight, are you going to be up and about looking for a slim girl?
Donât be in love with weight. Weight is just weight. And I am not saying that you should not pick a girl with big bums and curves if thatâs what you like, but I am saying donât let your love for someone be just based on the size of a bum. She might get stress and lose that bum. Then there are race issues. Some women, especially in Africa and China believe in getting married to white men. Some white women in Europe believe that men in Africa sex better.Word has it that some guys in Africa believe that if you ever sex an Indian, American or French woman you will forget the day you were born. Those things are just mental perceptions. And such have promoted sex tourism. There is nothing like that. How is a man or a woman going to go around test-driving women of all the races to verify myths that were born out of pure ignorance? It is just a mindset. If you believe girls in Russia are the best, its going to be that way to you. And yes if you believe Russian girls are the best then get yourself a Russian girl and settle.
You should get what you want, settle and enjoy it. There is no way you are going to eat everything in the restaurantâs menu and not have problems. Even rich guys choose what they want to eat. I have met and known racists who believed that falling in love with black chicks is degrading because they lowly rate them as unclean ââkaffirs.ââ Generalization is hardly true. But that aside, mentality is king. ââI know and am convinced by the Lord Jesus that there is nothing unclean of itself; but to him who considers anything to be unclean, to him it is uncleanââ,(Romans 14:14). I just love that verse coz it shows us that itâs all about our minds.
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