a rib from a man and created a loud speakerââ. Again I donât know whether the old man indeed said so, but the man is funny. He makes me laugh. While watching his recent SADC address on television, I was in tears of laughter. He was talking about how bushmen refuse to leave the kind of life they live in the bush. How they love bush meat and reject civilization. The way he said it made me laugh. Mugabeâs humor to me rivals Trevor Noahâs. Anyway lets get to the topicâs conclusion and leave Mugabe alone...
How does it help you sexually to know all this emotional differences between woman and men. To have a woman enjoy sex somehow implies that the sex has to be emotional to be enjoyable. Some women even cry during hot sex, a thing, which few men can do. If a woman can bring ââsmallââ issues to the doctor, that probably means she will worry if you ram her pussy and wound it. They care about such issues. Be sensitive when dealing with a woman. Donât be over-sensitive but be caring enough to understand them. They are people of emotion, of health and detail.
(5) Fashion
It is clear to the observant eye, that men and women approach fashion in a different way. That is why a woman will buy different colors of shoes for every occasion and every shoe would have to match with the handbag and makeup of the day. Most women can bath and dress up, just to get to an automatic teller machine and draw funds. A sizeable number of men would think looking clean is such a priority.The way women dress just shows us that they are attentive to detail and aesthetic. Women are very color, texture, material and label sensitive. I do buy my wife shoes but let me not hide the fact that itâs difficult because women are very choosy people. I hardly feel content about the choice I make for her. But buying a man shoes is a much easier task, which has its priority around buying something that protects one from stepping on thorns!
Men are simple on issues of fashion. We just want something hard enough to last us ages. It must have quality and appeal. Menâs shoes for instance are made with a particular focus on durability and appearance. We are not too colorful. We donât wear pink, lilac or lemon-yellow shoesâwell, at least not most of us. Women on the other hand look primarily for beauty, appeal, elegance and status. The shoes of women are made out of almost anything:plastic, leather, leatherette, suede, paper and fabric. The idea behind the shoe is beauty first and foremost and elegance. Durability? Yah well...I have seen tender puppies tear them apart!
According to Wharton marketing professor Stephen J. Hoch, shopping behavior reflects gender differences coz âWomen think of shopping in an inter-personal, human fashion and men treat it as more instrumental. Itâs a job to get done,â Simply put ââwomen shop, men buyââ. I went with my mother and my wife to a traditional restaurant (By the way, I donât have a father, heâs late), so while we were there, mum fussed about the behavior of waiters. How they were frowning and all. All I wanted was fooood !
I donât know why God made me that way. The only reason I can give for not being interested in how waiters behave is that I am a man. Not that I donât mind shit but for most of the time I would rather not care about frowning waiters. ââWhat I found interesting is how women tend to be more focused on people while men act almost as if they are dealing with an ATM machine. In fact, they want to deal with an ATM machine. They really donât want to deal with a person.â says Wharton marketing professor Stephen J. Hoch.
Just to add on to Hochâs view, I think man made the ATM and vending machine. They must have thought its the best way to get what you want without having to deal with attendant crap.
What does all this have to do with sexing a woman? If women treat shopping like a big deal while men think largely of buying, that means woman are more interactive in shopping as well as in sex. She wants to hear your voice, what you think of her, how you feel about her and all that jizz. Men on the other hand donât dwell so much on the emotion behind sex.Not that they donât have emotions but rather the rubbing feels more worth consecrating on than all these other âgirlyâ feelings. How she looks, the feeling of penetration and positions matter largely to a man. But the woman while sheâs in to the sex, wants to feel loved and wanted .In short while she is into the ââemotionââ of it the male is into the ââmotionââ of it. What a difference!
(b) Sexual differences
All my books and sermons are like this. They always are at the beginning like a deviation from the central topic. I wanted you to understand the difference between both sexes before we proceed. If you skipped this stage, you have missed a very important lesson. Now whatâs next? I want to tell you what happens when a man and a woman have sex. What happens to the male and what happens to the Female? How can you thoroughly sex a man or woman when you donât know what really transpires during copulation. Okay, when a man and woman are in the bedroom there are no arbitrators or human rights activists. The light may be bright or dimly lit.... Ok before the light is bright or dimly lit, you met this guy or girl, loved her from the day you saw her. Was that love? Oh yah, letâs just say so, but it was just a feeling brought about by testosterone.
The presence of hormones is obvious during the teenage stage and into our youth and adult stage. We thus have a lot of crushes at this stage. But for males,itâs got to be triggered by sight. You saw this person, were crazed by what you saw coz you liked it, and the rest became an oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone movie. They call it ââlove at first sight.ââ I think I remember feeling that way about my wife. I thank God I never had to have a crush on every girl. I am the ââmarriage type.ââ But I went through the spell of having a crush. Having a crush is a feeling that makes one weak and love stung. Until it happens to you, you wonât understand why the Kingâs bride in Songs of songs says,ââI am overcome by love,ââ (Songs of songs 2:5), or ââI am faint with loveââ,(Songs of songs 2:5). Have you ever loved someone to such an extent that you cannot look into a bathtub, or dishwashing basin and not see the face of your lover? When I met my wife, I could not act like a Shaolin monk. I had to admit that someone special has appeared. It did not matter to me how spiritual I was by then. That feeling wonât excuse you because you are a preacher. What do I mean by that? I mean that when you meet this person you somehow find yourself not knowing what to say or do. You panic, fumble and completely lose your cool. Has it ever happened to you?
You see, when you have a crush, your stress response rises automatically triggering the presence of cortisol, a stress hormone. When you see this person you feel attracted to, you can shiver, experience crazy heart-beats and feel the same way you would if a ferocious criminal pointed a gun at you. There is that adrenalin effect in the body of a lover. You feel the same anxiety that is felt by Botswanaâs loved athlet, Nijel Amos when he is racing in a stadium towards athletic victory. There is that fear in all sports persons comparative to a loverâs anxiety. Thatâs why Nike says ââjust do it.ââ If you are a guy, you feel everytime you meet this person you want her so badly that you are in a break it or make it moment. You wonder what you are going to say and how you are going to say it. Ladies feel extremely shy. But both prospective lovers canât sleep peacefully at night. The woman in Songs of songs tells us what happens when one has a crush. She says ââI sleep, but my heart is awake; It is the voice of my beloved! He knocks, saying, âOpen for me, my sister, my love, My dove, my perfect one; For my head is covered with dew, My locks with the drops of the night.â (songs of Songs 5:2).Thatâs typical of having a crush. Donât you remember that high school crush?: âOr the severe crush at the end of elementary school. Unfortunately very few relationships from our younger days ever amount to anything but hormones.
So,men have got more of the sex drive
