itâI am a man and I have struggled to understand why my wife is often caught up in moving from shop to shop looking for slightly cheaper tomatoes. That thing just pisses me off. There is no anointing in men that helps them compete with women when it comes to obsession with detail. Thanks to women coz their obsession with detail is causing manufacturers to be a bit more careful with how they make their products. A woman will return a yoghurt back to the shop without shame if she finds something ââsmallââ that she doesnât like about it as long as she believes the retailer is liable for that dislike. My wife and other women I know can do this and I think itâs a female talent!
You donât know how limited men are until you start studying women. You wonât know how incapable women are until you look into the lives of men with utter curiosity. Women are people of detail, in friendships, prices, clothes and speech. But men donât give a hoot whether something is slightly cheaper or expensive, what matters to them is convenience. The convenient store is loaded with men who want to buy cooked sausage, grilled chicken and fries or burgers but that to women is a deliberate waste of money. Thanks to men because without them, restaurants would close down.
What does a womanâs natural inclination to detail mean? It means she will listen closely to your words as a man and will hold you accountable for every last bit of word you say. Not because she is strict but because she simply has a good memory. Thatâs why some men lament and feel that ladies are unforgiving. She is not unforgiving but simply has a bigger memory. So, sex will be sex but to her how you go about the whole thing will matter. It will matter as to whether your armpits smell or you got cologne on. It will also matter as to whether you kiss passionately or just to get it over with. She will be watching, feeling and sensing every detail of your actions. You are under very immense scrutiny. As you pull your trouser down, donât think her sleepy eyes are not seeing you. Womenâs love for detail simply implies that sexing one must be a careful well-anticipated move, romantic, flooded with a detailed display of affection and passion. Every part of the process must be observed. No short cuts and rushing to do ââjiggy jiggy.ââ God made women the way they are deliberately. Itâs high time you made love to your spouse, consciously planning every last bit of your action, being natural yet romantic. Remember she has a bigger memory than you, and if you are boring, she will remember it long enough after you have forgotten.
Do you know how your woman will know when you are cheating?: âDetail. Men overlook details but the devil is in the details. Your lady will know through the very small things you overlook that you have been cheating. The smile, attention, fragrance, receipts,screaming a girlâs name in dream, call habits and small comments and likes on social media. Thatâs why itâs better not to cheat and think you will get away with it. How does a woman still remember that you promised to take her out to that burger and chicken restaurant when you have long forgotten?:âmemory. Women are power tanks coz they have 11% more neurons than men. ââLadies, science has proven what youâve been saying all along: your manâs memory is worse than yours. Not only that, but their brains are smaller, at least the part that controls memories. âThatâs right, thatâs what the data says,â said Dr. Clifford Jack of the Mayo Clinic. âWe see worse memory and worse brain volumes in men than women from [age] 40s onward.â (CNN). Over the weekend as I thought about this, I felt inferior because according to the mirror, ââIn a report for a psychology journal, Glasgow University researchers found that although both sexes struggled to juggle priorities, men suffered more on average and were slower than women.ââ
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Women can iron, cook and baby-sit at the same time. Itâs called ââmulti- tasking.ââ Womenâs brains afford them the ability to execute tasks that need to be repeated over and over and to also do tasks that are different in nature at the same time. You should by now be able to remember how female bank tellers have been good at helping you the last time you went to the bank.
So if you are a guy, donât be shocked to think that while you stop at everything to talk to your lady, she might be on the phone emotionally communicating with you while at the same time doing everything else. Multitasking is powerful right? But not when it comes to sex. According Petra Zebroff, Ph.D, ââSex pleasure requires undivided attention to work properly. When attention moves off the erotic, sexual problems can ariseââ the sage doctor goes on to explain that ââwomen, with their multi-tasking brains, are the most guilty of not giving sexual pleasure the undivided attention it needs. But it affects women differently. Women are twice more likely to encounter slow arousal and delayed or absent orgasm than men are.ââ
The homework for women, whose multitasking brilliance has become a curse, is to focus more on sexual pleasure by guiding their wild minds into the activity at stake. Men have to worry less about a multitasking brain because thatâs not their nature. But financial stress, loss or grief of any sort has the propensity to make men unable to concentrate during sex. Lack of control over oneâs mind can result in delayed or premature orgasm.
Sex researcher, Dekker, is said by Petra to have ââfound when a woman turns her attention to how she feels during a sexual act â including lubrication or increased blood flow (feeling of fullness in the genitals) â she will feel more turned onââ. I think a man who is good at his game has to assume the duty of stimulating concentration in his lady and that will even take touching and speaking his erotic language to her, to take her mind out of her chores and the things that constantly disturb her. For the first time in her multi-tasking brainâs life, she will not be thinking about the fact that she forgot baby bobâs clothes on the washing line.
Men are great at manipulating objects to achieve certain movements, the same way Michael Schumacher was good at being the speed ââdemonââ in his racing car, while David Bekham is known for his brilliant way of scoring balls that have a stunning curve movement. So the reason womenâs football matches are not preferable to menâs famous world cup matches lies a whole lot more on natural brilliance. Men are generally better at technical things like mechanics, engineering and stuff. And I am not saying women canât do any of those things, most of the time, men are better... Women on the other hand are better at noticing if anything is misplaced. Candy is well able to notice that a plate is missing in the kitchen compared to her husband. Women demonstrate a better recall of details than men. A study has observed that women do better at manual tasks that require precision like cooking, plaiting and putting pegs on the washing line. Women, it is observed, do better than men in mathematical calculations. Men on the other hand, do better than women on tests that require mathematical reasoning. According to sex differences in the Brain, by Doreen Kimura ââ women perform better than men in both verbal memory (recalling words from lists or paragraphs) and verbal fluency (finding words that begin with a specific letter), there was a large difference in memory ability but men tend to perform better than women on certain spatial tasks. They do well on tests that involve mentally rotating an object or manipulating it in some fashion, such as imagining turning this three-dimensional object. Women tend to perform better than men on tests of perceptual speed in which subjects must rapidly identify matching items for example, pairing the house on the far left with its twinââ
Why am I telling you this?:â Because you need to know your man or woman well to give them a good screw. You need to know the personâs natural ability and their shortcomings. Apart from that, you cannot have great sex any longer that you can drive a merc without knowing its technical specifications and operations. Male brains have 8% more grey matter, while womenâs brains have 12% more white matter. This means that men are (generally) better at linear progression of thoughts while women are better at gathering disparate areas of information to make decisions, a non-linear function (Paraphrase). I think God deliberately made men and women the way they are not to compete but to complement each other. Whenever
