says Dr Ghosh. Dopamine is a chemical that stimulates the rush of pleasure and makes one to feel as though they are riding a surf board at Durban summer thrill. Scientifically speaking, ââits a compound present in the body as a neurotransmitter and a precursor of other substances including epinephrine.ââ One guy wrote in a magazine that even if your boss were to appear at that time, you wouldnât have an atom of reverential fear for him/her. Some say the mind goes blank. A Christian might say it is then that you see the greatness of God. But most agree that you see nothing. But this stage is very pleasurable and causes men to be addicted to sex because it has the same effect as crack cocaine. Dopamine is dope nigga. Sex is the only legal way to have pleasure enough to rival some of the very drugs banned by the state. Thatâs why some people promise others trains when they are at this point. Some scream ââmarry me.ââ Years ago, a woman in South Africa complained that her guy screams too loud during climax and this embarrasses her. Recently, in the western world, was that United Kingdom?:â The court charged a woman for screaming loud everytime she reached climax thus disturbing her neighbors. Climax during sex is a very exhilarating moment. Sex, if it is by any means extremely wonderful, has that meeting point between a dopamine obsession and an oxytocin intoxication. Thatâs why we preachers have been saying that the Bible says, ââTherefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one fleshââ,(Genesis 2:24). The moment oxytocin is released, the woman and the man start having empathy for each other. She feels as if she were you. You become a part of her. Thatâs why she grieves when you die. Thatâs why she irons your clothes and gives you food as if she were doing it to herself. Please ââLet her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her loveââ,(Proverbs 6:19). Donât go screwing everybody around and doing oxytocin with everyone. Why ââshould you my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman, And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?ââ(Proverbs 6:20).
I have sat with women who were beaten by their boyfriends, bruised, hurting, abused, neglected, cheated on and they couldnât leave them. Why?:âshout ââoxytocin!ââ They had bonded with them. To leave him has become to leave yourself because ââ a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one fleshââ,(Genesis 2:24). People love themselves and when you go into bed with someone, chances are you will end up loving him or her the way you love yourself. Thatâs why is not good to be doing one night stands and going dope with a person you donât know. If you are going to have sex with someone, you better make sure itâs a committed arrangement, so that you donât just leave anytime you want and leave the person torn apart. Why will a guy scream a girlâs name and want to buy her a train? You know the answer: âdopamine. Thatâs why mothers often say, ââI donât understand my son. After I have cared for him this long, how does he buy his wife a merc when I am still driving an old corolla. ââ Let me answer that, ââWell, your son is going dope, momââ Get it? Heish, knowledge is beautiful. I thank God for giving me a love for knowledge. I know some people just hate me for saying the good old truth. They want hypocrisy. But I believe a Christian should have a good shag. He or she should know better, the things God created. We often say ââI can do all things through Christ who strengthens meââ,(Philippians 4:13). Canât Christ give you the strength to have proper sex that could humble a porn star? If not, then your faith is vanity.You âve got to be joking folk. Give that spouse of yours some good sex. Give her oxytocin. Keep her captured by your warmth.
Okay enough of that, letâs now return to the subject matter. Letâs get back to this stage. At this stage, the sex is good. Lovers are screaming and feeling the bolt of lightning sensation. Somebody is calling for God or mama (they never call for daddy anyway). Hormones are being released and there is that ââdo not disturbââ notice at the door of a hotel room. Heish, thatâs why sometimes I loathe hotel beds of businesses that care less about hygiene. Hotel beds can be dirty sex grounds if a hotel is not thorough at cleaning coz there are fluid secretions during sex. Whatâs next? Obviously if the two love birds know what they are doing then walls of the vagina begin to contract. There is that earthquake sensation, and there is probably additional vaginal lubrication. The woman cums, and ââfemale ejaculationââ occurs. I guess we never learned about it at school. The guy starts screaming, crying or mourning if not staring at the air with the mind ââblankââ... (well it varies from guy to guy) . Not every guy calls his ladyâs name three times. The cuming stage is the climax stage and if you have done business admin or marketing at school, the whole sexual thing is like a product life cycle. After the climax, things should reach a decline (a gradual one though). In My other book,the spiritual relationship, I wrote as follows : Climax is the zenith of sexual affection. It is understood to be the most joyous moment in a sexual activity. It is the moment of sexual satisfaction and achievement. Women experience contractions and vibrations while men release spermatozoa at this time of the intercourse. In women this may be a 15 seconds interval while for men it is roughly 4-5 seconds. The most important thing is that it is a moment of achieving satisfaction (end of quote). Just a moment prior to coming, lovers had become a bit numb, the same way one feels when they drink a considerable amount of scotch whisky. This is because during sex craze, the sensory cortex of the brain is affected. That is why you wonât be respectful even if the state president appeared instantly by your bedside during climax. Did you know that good sex can be so good that it wipes away memory? You can forget your middle name if the sex was really really good. According to one blogger, ââSometimes, people also experience transient retrograde amnesia, forgetting some portion of their previous memories. In the case of the 54-year-old woman at the Washington, D.C., hospital, the last day was a fog, and she had been forgetful and confused since having sex.ââ Hmmmm, her old man must have been very skillfulâat least more skillful than todayâs young people who sex boringly and yet impregnate instantly. Young people, and a great deal of them I must say, are only favored by raging hormones and gutsy erections. But in marriage, they might not prove to be excellent at doing the same person over and over for fifty years or more. And thatâs why I am taking them to school. You see, I havenât started teaching you how to have sex yet. I am just teaching you what happens during intercourse. By the time you finish this book, if the way you see sex has not changed then you need nothing more than spanking (huh,jus kiddin). But if this book sounds too rough and candid for you, donât read it. If you continue reading, then am surely not to blame.
Stage 4
Most people have such sex that they donât pass by stage one, they only start at stage three and before you know it, the person is ejaculating and being pleasured alone. Underline the word ââalone.ââ This person is alone as though this is some type of masturbation. Eish, what a let down!
But here at stage 4,the story should be different. If the lovers have reached climax, then at this time, the war is over, both countries have called a truce. There is retreat and surrender. The penis starts deflating or becoming smaller thus returning to its normal flaccid condition. In women the clitoris relaxes and takes it easy. Both men and women experience muscle relaxation, the opposite of muscle tension.
In the past we have had oestrogen, testosterone, adrenalin, cortisol, oxytocin and dopamine, but are the hormones done yet?âNo, no yet. Another hormone called Vasopressin (also known as the anti-diuretic hormone) is released. Vasopressin may be the reason why you often feel thirsty after sex. After all, couples sweat and lose a lot of water when having actively involving sex. But it also stimulates bonding between the two. During intercourse the nervous system in the Female is a bit numb so that much of what she feels will be pleasure and not pain. And it doesnât mean she wonât feel any pain from scratches if the penis has got hair that causes vaginal tears, it only means any pain inflicted feels less catastrophic than it actually should. As much as the body begins to relax after sex, the brain
