with its crucifixion and resurrection can make sense
of death so that we can pray: “Oh death, where is thy sting?”
and as I tried to pray with purity sex began to take me
through various transformations in the religious life.
I,2 Growing Spiritually in that Seminary Seed Bed
I,2.1 Nourishing Agape for All Persons with the Liturgy
Already during our first year in the seminary we began
to practice the spiritual, intellectual, vital, and physical exercises.
We all knew that as future priests the spiritual were the most
important and that the others were for the sake of the spiritual.
At the center of our spiritual exercises was our praying of
the mass twice a day and all of our prayer was a practice
of agapeic love by which we would love God more and more
with our whole heart, mind, and soul and our neighbor as ourself.
The mass consisted of two parts: the liturgy of the Word and
the liturgy of the Eucharist, and Father Bernard in his teaching
focused most of all in relating Jesus and his love to both of these.
The church’s year of grace was organized around the main events
in the life of Jesus so that the seasons of Advent, Christmas,
Lent, Holy Week, Easter, and Pentecost each had a buildup of lessons
in the readings from the Hebrew Bible, the Epistles, and the Gospels,
which let us pray in detail about each moment of Jesus’ love.
This first half of the mass in its liturgy of the Word also
included the beautiful prayers, “I will go up to the altar of God,”
which, as an altar boy in the sixth, seventh, and eighth grades,
I had said in Latin with Father Heeren, and the Kyrie or Lord
Have Mercy, the Gloria in Excelsis Deo, and The Creed.
This liturgy of the Word prepared us for the liturgy of the Eucharist
with its three main parts of the offertory, consecration, and communion.
We brought all of our thoughts, words, and deeds, all of our praise
repentance, thanksgiving, and petition, and offered them up
with the bread and the wine the priest offered to God.
And then with the bread and the wine they became the body and
the blood of Jesus, which were separated in the consecration
so that the sacrifice of the mass is the center of the priest’s life.
Then there is communion in which the resurrected Jesus lives on.
I,2.2 Nourishing Agapeic Affection with the Liturgy of the Word
Love and personal growth in the seminary had to do most of all
with cultivating the three theological virtues of faith, hope, and charity.
Loving everybody is a very unnatural sort of thing for people are
so different that they irritate each other very frequently with
negative reactions that are habitual and that they often express.
Even our family members who are closest to us might be of
different body types and have tastes that tend to disgust us.
The whole seminary lifestyle with its lengthy silence and all
of its spiritual exercises aims at a self-overcoming so that we
could come to affirm all others constantly even with a loving affection.
Father Bernard helped us to see how the liturgy of the Word
operated on three planes at once: the historical, the plane of grace,
and the eschatological plane involving us in past, present, and future.
During the six seasons of the year the liturgy of the Word told us
the story of salvation as it was foretold by the prophets and lived out
by Jesus from his birth to his death and resurrection and his Spirit’s coming.
But all of this historical reality offered us grace in our present life.
It was our task to appropriate it and love with the love that Jesus
loved as he came to teach love and to live it out in suffering joy.
And finally the liturgy of the Word was always preparing us for
the life to come when we would die but resurrect in glory with Jesus.
So the liturgy taught us faith in the past, hope for the future, and a life
of love for all in the present so that all the readings during mass
with new stories each day brought us to reflect upon and understand
the mass that as priests we would pray each day and teach to others.
We came to see how certain Saints like St. Francis especially
imitated Jesus in his affection as Francis would love brother moon
and sister sun and have affection for all persons and living beings.
The monks loved us with a certain affection that we could hear
in the tone of their voice and they began to teach us the history of
this special agapeic affection that would last forever as we lived it now.
I,2.3 Nourishing Agapeic Friendship with the Word’s History
Affection and friendship are two different kinds of love and the liturgy
of the word taught us of each throughout the history of the Hebrew Bible
and throughout the twenty-seven books of the New Testament
and on into history.
For besides the Sunday masses, which took us into
