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the evolutionary roots of empathy‐induced altruistic motivation seems to be cognitive generalization of human parental nurturance. If true, this account reveals a potentially serious liability. It suggests that a person for whom empathic concern is felt is metaphorically seen as childlike – as dependent, vulnerable, and needing care – at least with regard to the need in question. Consistent with this possibility, research has found that we feel greater empathic concern for more baby‐faced and more vulnerable adults (Dijker, 2001; Lishner, Batson, & Huss, 2011; Lishner, Oceja, Stocks, & Zaspel, 2008).

      Sometimes, to be perceived as dependent, vulnerable, and needing care poses no problem. Most of us happily defer to the expertise of physicians, police, and plumbers when we need their help. At other times, the consequences can be tragic. Teachers and tutors can, out of genuine concern, fail to enable students to develop the ability and confidence to solve problems themselves, thereby fostering unnecessary dependence, low self‐esteem, and a reduced sense of efficacy (Nadler, Fisher, & DePaulo, 1983). Physical therapists, physicians, nurses, friends, and family members can do the same for patients with physical or mental disabilities. So can social workers trying to care for the poor and disadvantaged. To see the person in need as dependent and vulnerable may lead to a response that perpetuates if not exacerbates the problem. It may produce paternalism.

      Effective parenting requires sensitivity about when to intervene and when to stand back, as well as sensitivity about how to structure the child’s environment to foster coping, confidence, and independence. Effective help requires much the same (J. D. Fisher, Nadler, & DePaulo, 1983). Recall the adage about teaching the hungry to fish rather than giving them fish.

      Not all needs evoke empathy‐induced altruism. Many of the pressing social problems we face today don’t involve personal needs of the sort likely to evoke empathic concern. Such concern is felt for individuals, but many of our pressing problems are global. Think of environmental protection, nuclear disarmament, and population control. These problems aren’t encountered as personal needs; they’re broader and more abstract. It’s difficult if not impossible to feel empathy for an abstract concept like the environment, world population, or the planet – although personalizing metaphors like “Mother Earth” may move us in that direction.

      Not only is it difficult to evoke empathy for these pressing global needs. Such needs can’t be adequately addressed with a personal helping response. They must be addressed in political arenas and through institutional and bureaucratic structures. The process is long and slow, not the kind of process for which emotion‐based motives, including empathy‐induced altruism, are apt to be very effective (Hardin, 1977). Like other emotions, empathic concern diminishes over time.

      It can lead to empathy avoidance. What if you don’t want to be altruistically motivated? After all, altruistic motivation can cost you, leading you to spend time, money, and energy on behalf of another. Awareness of this cost may arouse an egoistic motive to avoid feeling empathic concern and the resulting altruistic motive. Shaw, Batson, and Todd (1994) provided evidence that this empathy‐avoidance motive is likely to arise when you are aware – before exposure to a person in need – that (a) you will be asked to help this person and (b) helping will be costly (also see Cameron & Payne, 2011). Empathy avoidance might be aroused, for example, when you see a homeless person on the street, or hear about the plight of refugees, or see news footage of the ravages of famine. It may lead you to cross the street, close your eyes, change channels.

      Empathy avoidance may also be a factor in the experience of burnout among those who work in the helping professions (Maslach, 1982). But the conditions for empathy avoidance among helping professional don’t seem to be the ones specified by Shaw et al. (1994). Among professionals, empathy avoidance is more likely to result from the perceived impossibility of providing effective help than from the perceived cost of helping. Aware of the impossibility imposed by limited resources (e.g., insufficient time) or the intractability of the need (e.g., terminal illness), some physicians, chronic‐care nurses, therapists, counselors, and welfare case workers may avoid feeling empathy in order to avoid the frustration of thwarted altruistic motivation (López‐Pérez, Ambrona, Gregory, Stocks, & Oceja, 2013; Stotland, Mathews, Sherman, Hansson, & Richardson, 1978). These professional helpers may view their patients or clients as objects rather than people – and treat them accordingly. Other professionals may, over time, find that their ability to feel empathic concern is exhausted, leading to what has been called compassion fatigue (Figley, 2002). There are limits to how often one can draw from the emotional well. (For some possible antidotes, see Halpern, 2001.)

      Empathy avoidance may also occur in response to the suffering of members of the opposition in intergroup conflicts. Whether your opponents are a rival sports team or a national, tribal, or ethnic outgroup, their suffering may be more apt to produce schadenfreude – malicious glee – than empathic concern (Cikara, Bruneau, & Saxe, 2011; Hein, Silani, Preuschoff, Batson, & Singer, 2010).

      Empathy avoidance may even have played an important, chilling role in the Holocaust. Rudolf Hoess, the commandant of Auschwitz, reported that he “stifled all softer emotions” in order to carry out his assignment: the systematic extermination of 2.9 million people (Hoess, 1959).

      It can produce immoral action. Perhaps the most surprising implication of the empathy‐altruism hypothesis is that empathy‐induced altruism can lead to immoral action. This implication is surprising because many people equate altruism with morality. The empathy‐altruism hypothesis does not.

      More broadly, there is evidence that empathy‐induced altruism can lead to partiality in our decisions as a society about whom among the many in need will get our assistance. Several decades ago, Time magazine essayist Walter Isaacson (1992) commented on the photogenics of disaster. He raised the possibility that the decision to intervene in Somalia but not the Sudan occurred because those suffering in Somalia proved more photogenic – their faces evoked empathic concern and altruistic motivation in a way that those in the Sudan did not. Isaacson reflected: “Random bursts of compassion provoked by compelling pictures may be a suitable basis for Christmas charity drives, but are they the proper foundation for a foreign policy?” (Isaacson, 1992; similarly, see Bloom, 2016; Prinz, 2011).

      It can undermine the common good. Not only does the empathy‐altruism hypothesis predict that empathy‐induced altruism can lead to immoral action but also that it can lead us to act against the common good in social dilemmas. A social dilemma arises when three conditions co‐occur: (a) Persons have a choice about how to allocate their scarce resources (time, money, energy, etc.). (b) Regardless what others do, to allocate the resources to the group is best for the group as a whole, but to allocate to a single individual (oneself or another group member) is best for that individual. (c) If all allocations are to separate individuals, each individual is worse off than if all allocations are to the group. In modern society, social dilemmas abound. They include recycling, carpooling, pollution reduction, voting, paying taxes, contributing to public TV – to name but a few.

      Guided by the assumption of universal egoism that underlies game theory,

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