want to "protect me" from bad energy
yet you are the bad energy
toxic family members
let's get rid of the norm on the obligation/entitlement to remain in contact with family members, simply because you are "blood." it's okay to cut toxic people off without feeling guilty about it. don't fall for their narcissistic and manipulative ways. for the sake of your peace and healing, do what you need to do. even if it means losing other people that are against you cutting those toxic family members off, so be it. sometime's you'll need to also cut the connected branches off a tree, too. it's not being petty, it's not because you're unhealed, or broken, it's choosing yourself and your peace over their toxicity. it's loving from a distance with no hard feelings. you did the right thing, love.
and for the people who are against you cutting off those toxic family members:
stop invalidating other people's feelings/decisions simply because you use "blood" as an excuse to enable toxic and abusive behavior. it's not you, so please put yourself in their shoes. their reason is their reason and it doesn't matter if you agree or not regardless of age. you have no right to tell one how to feel or how to go about it. when you side the abuser you become the enabler.
reminder:
you are not fake or selfish for removing yourself
from bad energy that stunts your growth
whether you've known them for years or minutes
it's okay to remove yourself peacefully
history does not define present loyalty
nor does it define permanence
-in order to fully prosper you must outgrow
certain things and certain people to discover
the new right things, and people meant for you.
my growth is not an aesthetic mood board on pinterest. bettering myself is not an aesthetic. what i put out isn't "mood" on social media. it's my life. i put out what i hope will heal others that are going through things, too. it's not a look, it's what brought me out of my old sad life.
keep it
what you give and put out is what you get back and more.
the universe is listening
God is listening
a lost orphan in the middle
when you left me
you left me lost in the dark
i had no choice but to leave
i had nowhere to go
-although i was lost, i found me– a new me.
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